Hey! So first post ever because I really need some advice... I've been transitioning for the past 3 years to male, which is where I definitely socially like to be if I HAVE to pick a gender (I really identify as agender but until society at large can catch up to that here I am as a guy). I've been taking T for two years and have had top surgery, and I've noticed that, while I generally like the way my body looks, I really miss being a bit more androgynous and I've been kinda considering going off T for a little bit to see how I like to have things for real. I haven't been able to have a lot of time being read as ambiguously female/male, it just kinda flipped for me. I've heard a lot of people say that when they stopped testosterone, it because a lot harder for people to tell what gender they were. I know I'm walking a fine line here because I really don't want to be referred to as female but I just would like to look less masculine and not have to work as hard to present more femme when I want to (HONESTLY if I had my choice I'd just be in my heels and full beard and makeup but I live in a state where I'd probably get my ass kicked for that so it's... a lot better to go entirely one way or the other). Does anyone have any experience with going off of T, how it affected their body (maybe like a timeline if you can remember?), and if they were read as female afterwards if they weren't TRYING to be in their day to day? Thanks!
