Visiting this side of the forums

[Keri]

Hey guys,
I have fully transitions to female.  Dating now..

I just wanted to say, hang in there.  Being in the wrong body sucks.  At first when I thought about FTM folks i thought OMG why... your so lucky.

Now, i know what its like to be on the other side. I am happy but being a woman is so time consuming. Guys are aggressive.  Its what I wanted, I am female, but its not easy.

So now I have a different perspective.  I see that to be FTM must be very hard.  Honestly I had it made as a guy.  But it was not me.

It shows how real it is.. I was married 32 years and gave up my soul mate.
I transitioned in two years fully,.

Funny story for you...

I decided to drive outside of the city limits to look at the stars and talk to God by myself the other day.

I took a chair and planned the whole thing out.. a spiritual trip.

I got out in the middle of nowhere and guess what... I needed to pee.

I did not know what to do so I drove home..UGH no restroom close by at all.  I told my CIS girl friends what happened and I now know what to do...

I told my ex and she said its what I deserved.. all those times I would not stop driving when she needed to go.  On estrogen our bladders shrink for some reason...

Anyway thanks for letting me invade your space over here.  Wish you all luck. Be patient. You will make it.
Keri

[FTMax]

Haha, that story is exactly why I can't wait for bottom surgery Thanks for visiting, Keri!

[Keri]

FTMAX,
Yep,
Anywhere I go now the girls room always has a line at concerts and events.  I should just for fun sometime just say to hell with it and go into the mens room... but most likely the seats would be gross.....but when ya gotta go ya gotta go.
I think it would be funny to walk in on a bunch of men and just say..... I have to piss..... sorry guys.
LOL
Keri

[AnxietyDisord3r]

Hi Keri, welcome.

Yes, at big concerts/ballgames/events, cis women often barge into the men's restroom. Some ballparks only have troughs but some women carry STPs (like a GoGirl) or use the finger technique and use the trough anyway!

You might consider a GoGirl for camping. Even FTMs rate this product highly except for the "girly" look, lol.

My mother taught me to squat on the side of the road when we were little and on road trips but that is an inexact science and the dreaded splashback got me many a time. Maybe go for that STP (Stand-To-Pee device).

[Keri]

Hi Keri, welcome.

Yes, at big concerts/ballgames/events, cis women often barge into the men's restroom. Some ballparks only have troughs but some women carry STPs (like a GoGirl) or use the finger technique and use the trough anyway!

You might consider a GoGirl for camping. Even FTMs rate this product highly except for the "girly" look, lol.

My mother taught me to squat on the side of the road when we were little and on road trips but that is an inexact science and the dreaded splashback got me many a time. Maybe go for that STP (Stand-To-Pee device).

That is a good idea...thanks for the tip
Keri