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Started by Xhianil, June 08, 2016, 04:16:47 AM

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Xhianil

Lately I've been stuck and unable to figure out what course of action to take, all bleak and hopeless it seems, more so with depression spiking to high levels, does anyone know any resources to help one figure out how to help themselves?
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LizK

What course of action is causing you to have such a dilemma?
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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Ms Grace

Depression can often make it difficult to see solutions and make decisions, I'd suggest talking to your therapist or counsellor or doctor about the best way to deal with your depression first.
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Xhianil

Quote from: ElizabethK on June 08, 2016, 05:08:32 AM
What course of action is causing you to have such a dilemma?

Trying just to move out, live, be a average person

Quote from: Ms Grace on June 08, 2016, 07:10:30 AM
Depression can often make it difficult to see solutions and make decisions, I'd suggest talking to your therapist or counsellor or doctor about the best way to deal with your depression first.

Last time, 2 years ago, I went they decided meds, but I have no money to see them or pay for said meds.
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LizK

Quote from: Xhianil on June 08, 2016, 02:04:17 PM
Trying just to move out, live, be a average person

Last time, 2 years ago, I went they decided meds, but I have no money to see them or pay for said meds.

I have been away so am now just catching up on what I have missed...I I take it you are living somewhere where you don't want to be at the moment. Is this likely to be a long term thing for you...you said you don't have the money to see the Dr nor the anti depressants medication. Is there someone who can help you out in the short term to get your meds and see if that helps..if you feel better you may see a better way forward. Depression is horrible and very debilitating. It should not be left untreated...so anyone at at all who may lend you a hand? Parents? sorry is thats a horrible suggestion, Are you wanting to transition? What is the biggest thing in your eyes that would help you get on with your life?

Liz 
Transition Begun 25 September 2015
HRT since 17 May 2016,
Fulltime from 8 March 2017,
GCS 4 December 2018
Voice Surgery 01 February 2019
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Xhianil

Quote from: ElizabethK on June 17, 2016, 04:17:07 AM
I have been away so am now just catching up on what I have missed...I I take it you are living somewhere where you don't want to be at the moment. Is this likely to be a long term thing for you...you said you don't have the money to see the Dr nor the anti depressants medication. Is there someone who can help you out in the short term to get your meds and see if that helps..if you feel better you may see a better way forward. Depression is horrible and very debilitating. It should not be left untreated...so anyone at at all who may lend you a hand? Parents? sorry is thats a horrible suggestion, Are you wanting to transition? What is the biggest thing in your eyes that would help you get on with your life?

Liz

Let me put it simply, Tonight my father and his girlfriend got in a fight and hit each other several times, and at this point its not a uncommon occurrence, So not exactly the safest/stress free/ stable situation over here. Nothing I can do about the depression except fix the stuff that causes it and maybe medication. Yes i want to, badly, but money and my current house have kept me from doing so. Getting payed a living wage, figuring out housing, ect.
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