Monogomous or Polyamorous?

[KarlMars]

I want to see if the majority of the trans population on this website are polyamorous or monogomous just out of curiosity. Please discuss.

[Dayta]

I can't even imagine being with anyone else. 

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[Arch]

I'd have to put "Other." I was poly for years. At 26-27, I met my last partner, and we were monogamous for a couple of decades. I've been single for the past seven years, and I'm not interested in a relationship with anyone at all. I'm not sure where that leaves me.

[j-unique]

Basically monogamous, but I can imagine having a triangle relationship (tried that a few years ago, didn't go well, but if it does, why not). I know that it's possible to love more than one person. Also, I think it's OK to have sex with other people, when the partner agrees (of course, you'll have to be honest and talk about STDs and safety).

I find it strange that "relationship" automatically means "relationship between two people", and everything else is out of scope, impossible, immoral, without legal framework.

[KarlMars]

Basically monogamous, but I can imagine having a triangle relationship (tried that a few years ago, didn't go well, but if it does, why not). I know that it's possible to love more than one person. Also, I think it's OK to have sex with other people, when the partner agrees (of course, you'll have to be honest and talk about STDs and safety).

I find it strange that "relationship" automatically means "relationship between two people", and everything else is out of scope, impossible, immoral, without legal framework.

That's why they call it friend with benefits.

[Dee Marshall]

I'm unabashedly polyamorous but I've been living monogamously for the past decade. I've always had difficulty making those kinds of connections and I almost never let them go. Only one in the past 35 years and it didn't last long.

[Semira]

I would never want to be with more than one person at a time. To me it would dilute the experience.

[JustASeq]

Not dating. Only having sex.

[FTMax]

Monogamous in my current relationship. I wouldn't be opposed to a polyamorous situation but it's not something I would pursue. If a partner wanted it, I'd be cool with it.

[RobynD]

Well over two decades of marriage and having a family together without expectation of monogamy. By practice it has been monogamous for long stretches of time, but there is no rule, vow or expectation on either of us.

[Lady Sarah]

I just could not see myself having more than one man.

[Heita]

Monogamous.

I'm all about building something together, being and having a special someone with whom something is shared and only with them. I deeply believe that having personal space, time, different friends and interests is of paramount importance, but things like our home, our sexual life, our life as a couple, can only be shared between two people exclusively in my viewpoint.

[Dee Marshall]

By the way, there's no wrong or right answer, but there may be a genetic one. My son is also poly and luckily in a loving relationship with a poly woman. I guess some of us are chimpanzees and some of us are bonobos.

[BeverlyAnn]

Monogamous.  Dee is a better shot than I am and I'm pretty good.  LOL 

[Eevee]

I'm monogamous. I don't think polyamory would ever work out for me, nor does it really interest me.

[cheryl reeves]

Monogamous,been married 28 yr and if something happened to her would be single not saying.

[Lady_Oracle]

poly 

[Deborah]

Monogamous.  I can't actually imagine myself as anything else.

[arice]

I am monogamous but would love to try a triad relationship.

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[Ella_bella]

My wife was polyamorous before meeting me.

Our relationship started off as monogamous, mainly due to my lack of experience with poly. Over the last few years we've developed our relationship to a point where our communication, openness and trust is at a level that we are now ready to move forward in a polyamorous way.