heres my 2c... but there is an amount of programing, but this in my view, is easily overcome by someone who is genuinely female (lets use m2f in this example as its most debated) behaving femininely, and a female behaving naturally are two different things, and its visible. i dont mean to dishearten those who belive they dont have female manerisms, but physical learned behaviour with the intent of showing something often looks false... And its visible in transwomen, there are some (dont kill me here) who transition for the wrong reasons, some who use sites like this and others, to gain information to tell therapists what they want to hear, for thier own ends, which is thier belief that they should transition, or its a good idea. that transition might save thier rotten life, or a breakdown of some sort. These people exist, and thier easy to spot and read, they scream male with every part of themselves, nomatter how well they visually pass. Some transwomen are genuinely female in responses and behaviour naturally, weather this is always the case in life, or otherwise. and these are the hardest to read, because like natal females, they dont behave in a certain way to prove thier female, they are.... then there are some, who with a little help, and 'deprograming' can express thier true femininity. but thats all thats needed, some direction, one doesnt LEARN how to be seen as female, if your having to constantly think about behaviour, day in day out, its not natural for you, and natural is what this games all about...
call this a rant, call it biggoted, feel free, but only those who fall into the aforementioned category, and i fear these will be the ones to kick up a fuss, a delusional minority. Dont mistake this post for saying if you havent always acted naturally for a female, you arnt. Thats not what my post says, so get new specs

R