Hey everyone. I was looking for advice about the mental slip ups. I had a coffee and window shopping date with a girly-friend. It went overall great. I spent that time feeling like I belong of the pink team. Especially when she says stuff like ''Omg one day when we have money we are going to get lunch and shop like crazy'' and just things like that, small things that i pick up on that allows me to feel connected into female world/girl talk
I love those small things, we also went window shopping for cute mini-dresses and tops. These are moemnts I cherish
But the other small things... The things that could have made me had a meltdown not just a few months ago.. My mental slips. They are getting better these days, but sometimes I notice that my voice will crack to a lower/more masculine tone, or I will do a small reaction to something and a behavior i picked up from a male growing up will slip out. These moments have ruined good times before. Today i had a couple slip ups, like with my voice.. I would be reminded of the ''masculinity'' of it and notice i started to feel real anxious and gross. i even felt a indigestion like feel, as if i was going to throw up (tho not gag happily). Thes moments didnt ruin my good night as i kept calm i refcused on the fact I AM a woman, but they are still annoying.. What steps have you all taken to minimize these slips to nothing? Thanks!!
