Hi Nicholas, it is a bumpy road for all of us here. And do please keep in mind that it will be a bumpy road for you Mom and Dad and probably the rest of your family. Transitioning not only effects you but everyone around you.
I am Jeanette, I am MtF and a bit older than you at 64 But I too am transitioning. I am also a self appointed unofficial greeter and as such I want to welcome you to Susan"s Place. (( hug )) ( I love doing that) Welcome Nicholas, come on in and find a chair grab a drink and get comfy because you are among friends here. Browse the posts and read the ones that interest you, Ask your questions. We have many resources here you can access through the links at the top of the page. I would suggest the Wiki to start. We also have many people here with a lot of experience of the kind you are personally going through. Make use of the forums to ask for help. You'll get lots of it.
Anyway welcome Nicholas.
Hugs,
Jeanette