Quote from: Sarah leah on July 25, 2017, 08:07:04 AM
This one is based solely on general western norms and sure to upset. However, when I discussed this with a panel of five world class Universities it was pretty much a perfect snap shot.
Call me a natural born rebel, but I can't resist to react when authority is quoted as an argument. Just for pointing a few things:
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1.I can socialise without the fear of being sexually manipulated and/or seduced. (girls only bars/security in my building, men will jump to my aid if I scream vs. other genders who might scream, separate areas on public transport between 9pm-7am to protect me if I want it)
Well, I'm not really sure how the measures to solve a big problem (women harassment) can be interpreted to be a "privilege". I'm no legal-head but you know, to me, to be proportionally protected against a threat sounds more like a right than like a privilege.
Sadly enough, even with those measures working, vast majority of victims still be women. Well, we always can argue they get advantage and they lie (we can go as far as arguing conspiracies if we want).
Quote from: Sarah leah2.I can enjoy the luxuries of staying at home and rely on my spouse for financial security without being frowned upon by society for doing so.
Not in my society unless you're the mom of at least 4 little kids. In fact, what my society would expect of a woman is to both take care of the kids/home and work in a job the most hours she can.
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3.I can openly talk about my mental health and emotions without being negatively judged by society.
Not just men, but even other women may call you a "crybaby" depending on how much you "talk".
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4.I am not expected to remain onboard a sinking ship in order to allow the opposite gender to reach safety first.
Putting others safety first in such a situation (no matter what gender you are or they are) is an honor. And those who do this, are really privileged and regarded as heros, whether they are men or not.
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5.I am able to look after my children and simultaneously apply for financial compensation from my workplace without being negatively judged by society.
Not in my society. And even a compensation will be no privilege but justice, since because of motherhood many women lose important career opportunities and experience.
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6.In case of divorce, I get greater custody over my children and a greater say in the situation, along with greater sympathy from the judiciary and greater freedom to choose my child's co-parent.
Again not in my society.
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7.I will receive lighter prison sentences and better judicial treatment simply because of my gender.
I find really hard to figure how to make a reliable statistic since each crime is unique and usually a summary contains hundreds of pages.
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8.Most domestic violence perpetrators of my gender do not get arrested in comparison to the counterparts of the opposite gender.
Even if true, sadly the most easy to verify victims (those who die) still are women. Watch out your privileges!
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9.My gender does not commit suicide at a multiple rate in comparison to the opposite gender.
Curiously enough as some research indicates, suicide behaviours are linked to externalizing psychopatologies, who are more common among men (in fact, suicide can be regarded somewhat as an externalizing and violent, specially in the way men commit it, behaviour). Balancing this, there is the greater prevalence of major depressing (often lifelong) disorders among women. Food for thought.
And it goes on...
Obviously I think is really healthy to always look at the bright side of things and be happy for the opportunities we may have as women, that's for sure. But we need to be a little critical and realistic. The fact that those women that behave much like most men and play really well by mens rules are the ones who are on the top layers of society may raise a red flag about "who is who"; for who and by who is "designed".
I'm not saying being a man is living in a pink world full of fantasy and goodies. It's not. But saying that females are "privileged" is nonsensical, as is nonsensical to say a slave has the privilege of not having to care about his fate because master decides for him.