Hmm... well, let me put this out there. I'm still not out and am publicly male. The other day, I was out with a group of people, and the conversation drifted into politics. I started airing my grievances towards Hillary Clinton, particularly in regards to her silence about Bill Clinton's sexual assault allegations. A guy in the group got angry about this and started defending her honor, and then a third guy started taking over us and repeatedly insisted we end the conversation and change the subject.
This is supposedly something that commonly happens to women, right? Yet, it happened to me. One man got visibly angry about an opinion I had, another one just straight-up talked over me until I didn't have any other choice but to shut up. This stuff can happen to men and people identified by others as men, too, and I believe it mainly happens in liberal social circles where anyone identified by the group as a straight white man is expected to follow a party line and not rock the boat, because we're supposed to be voluntarily taking the back seat and letting the persecuted minorities take the lead. This isn't the only time something like this has happened, I have the hardest time getting anyone to listen to my opinions or my problems without being summarily dismissed, because they're not opinions or problems that a white man should have. By contrast, I've seen women make similar complaints no one bats an eye
Depending on the social setting, women are a lot more able to talk about their emotions, opinions, and personal problems than men are, even in mixed company. This may be a generational thing, too; young white men are conditioned to harbor a lot of white male guilt that older men probably didn't experience when they were young. It's gotten to the point where I'm just about done with certain "friends" of mine, because every time I try to be emotionally open to them, they just get angry at me. They refuse to believe that a man could legitimately feel silenced, stifled, or threatened by anything a liberal politician does, so they just don't take me seriously and straight up insist I don't talk about it.