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Started by steph2.0, September 17, 2017, 11:42:47 PM

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Kendra

Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 21, 2018, 11:11:15 AM
> OK, you've demonstrated your Googlemaps-fu.

I am not as certain where I am these days.  Step out of a room in Arizona I don't remember going into - something about anesthesia - and discover people have walked down the hallway from Florida and Colorado. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Laurie

Quote from: Kendra on February 21, 2018, 01:16:49 PM
I am not as certain where I am these days.  Step out of a room in Arizona I don't remember going into - something about anesthesia - and discover people have walked down the hallway from Florida and Colorado.
I've that can happen. You're at one place, fall asleep and the next thing you know you wake up somewhere missing not only time but parts. It"s happened to me twice.

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April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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steph2.0

Quote from: Kendra on February 21, 2018, 01:16:49 PM
I am not as certain where I am these days.  Step out of a room in Arizona I don't remember going into - something about anesthesia - and discover people have walked down the hallway from Florida and Colorado.

It was strange. Cassie and I stumbled and fell against a wall with the number 9 3/4 on it, and there we were in Kendra's hallway!


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Cassi

Quote from: Laurie on February 21, 2018, 01:50:39 PM
I've that can happen. You're at one place, fall asleep and the next thing you know you wake up somewhere missing not only time but parts. It"s happened to me twice.

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For sure!  In the bathtub filled with ice and a note about the Kidney.
HRT since 1/04/2018
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steph2.0

Update on my GCS consultation appointment:

When the "front desk administrator" called last Wednesday with an appointment date of March 9th, I wasn't at home where I could look at calendars and so on. I also asked whether I'd be able to see Dr. Ting at the same appointment, as the first email I'd received had indicated. She said she'd have to check, but would be off work on Thursday and Friday, and they were closed on Monday. She told me to call on Tuesday, which I did. I left two messages, and of course she called back when I was out and in an area with no cell coverage.

So I called again today, leaving multiple messages with no call-backs. Finally on the fourth call she picked up. It turns out you have to meet with three different people: a social worker, a mental health professional, and someone on the medical team. Since I didn't grab the March 9th appointment last Wednesday, the next one to meet with all three is on March 16th. But... If I wanted to add Dr. Ting to the appointments, the earliest date would be in September.(!) She said if I would agree to see Dr. Ting on his own, they could get me an appointment with him much earlier than September. Apparently the problem is coordinating all those schedules.

The lady I was talking to couldn't tell me whether, after meeting with all four people in September, there was any chance of getting GCS finished before the end of the year. And she couldn't tell me when I could get an individual appointment with Dr. Ting. All she could do is set up the March 16th appointment with the other three people.

So my choice was either make two trips to New York to see the three professionals and Dr. Ting separately, or wait until September before I could even get the process started. Not a great choice, but if making two trips (plus another for the surgery) to New York means getting it done before the end of the year, I guess I'll have to eat the extra expense. I signed up for the March 16th appointment.

Now I need to decide how we're getting there, and where we're staying. I've gotten help from some sisters here who are local New Yorkers. I'm leaning toward AirBNB. Seems like you can get a pretty good deal compared to a hotel. If anybody listening has been to NYC and has any hints for me (I've never been there), please fill me in!

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Kendra

AirBnB is a nice loophole, although location is important so you want to make sure it's near transportation (subway is cheap and avoids traffic).  I haven't used AirBnB in NY but will be next week in Seoul - $650 USD total for 9 days in a newer high-rise apartment in an excellent location.

I stayed a couple times in Hoboken New Jersey in a nice hotel for half the cost of Manhattan.  The hotel was walking distance to the Hoboken ferry dock, 10 minute ride to 14th Street in downtown NYC.  Ferry is about $10 each way (more expensive than train) but a lot more interesting.
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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steph2.0

There's an online service where pilots can see what activities are available in their area. Safety seminars, airshows, fly-ins, etc. If you've got an airplane and are looking for something to do, it's the go-to place to look. When you register for the service, you can add whatever you're flying into your personal profile, and they randomly pick one to display on the opening screen each day as their "featured aircraft."

Well, holy smokes, guess who ended up front and center today?!



:o ;D


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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KathyLauren

2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Faith

Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 22, 2018, 06:21:13 PM
There's an online service where pilots can see what activities are available in their area. Safety seminars, airshows, fly-ins, etc. If you've got an airplane and are looking for something to do, it's the go-to place to look. When you register for the service, you can add whatever you're flying into your personal profile, and they randomly pick one to display on the opening screen each day as their "featured aircraft."

Well, holy smokes, guess who ended up front and center today?!



:o ;D

Is that one of dem dar miniature thingamabobs? it's looks tiny .. I bet I could pick that thing up and carry it away. is it for small people? shhh ....

ahem, Way to go Stephanieieieieieeeeeeeee
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.

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steph2.0

Quote from: Faith on February 22, 2018, 08:04:19 PM
Is that one of dem dar miniature thingamabobs? it's looks tiny .. I bet I could pick that thing up and carry it away. is it for small people? shhh ....

ahem, Way to go Stephanieieieieieeeeeeeee

Ooo, good save at the end. Somebody almost lost her chance for an aeroplane ride.


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Kendra

I was gonna drone on about that prop but, no that is a real aircraft.  Scene it with my own ayes.  There, I almost blue it by winging it again.
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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steph2.0

Quote from: Kendra on February 23, 2018, 01:12:33 AM
I was gonna drone on about that prop but, no that is a real aircraft.  Scene it with my own ayes.  There, I almost blue it by winging it again.

Well, it's not a drone, but considering who's flying it, it is an unmanned aircraft.


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Bari Jo

Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 23, 2018, 01:34:08 AM
It is an unmanned aircraft.


- Stephanie

Hah, how long have you been waiting to use that line?

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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Faith

Quote from: Bari Jo on February 24, 2018, 12:34:29 PM
Hah, how long have you been waiting to use that line?

Bari Jo

All her life, I think
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.

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steph2.0

Quote from: Bari Jo on February 24, 2018, 12:34:29 PM
Hah, how long have you been waiting to use that line?

Quote from: Faith on February 24, 2018, 12:41:57 PM
All her life, I think

I was going to say something silly, but your answer was unexpectedly profound. You're right, and I kind of teared up when I realized its full meaning.


- Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Kendra

To be able to live as our true selves doesn't have to be just a dream.  Like flying.  It is possible. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Bari Jo

Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 24, 2018, 12:56:43 PM
I was going to say something silly, but your answer was unexpectedly profound. You're right, and I kind of teared up when I realized its full meaning.


- Stephanie

Exactly the reaction I was hoping for!  Thanks Faith for the assist.

Bari Jo
you know how far the universe extends outward? i think i go inside just as deep.

10/11/18 - out to the whole world.  100% friends and family support.
11/6/17 - came out to sister, best day of my life
9/5/17 - formal diagnosis and stopping DIY in favor if prescribed HRT
6/18/17 - decided to stop fighting the trans beast, back on DIY.
Too many ups and downs, DIY, purges of self inbetween dates.
Age 10 - suppression and denial began
Age 8 - knew I was different
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steph2.0

Quote from: Bari Jo on February 24, 2018, 03:49:59 PM
Exactly the reaction I was hoping for!  Thanks Faith for the assist.

Bari Jo, Kendra, Faith, sometimes I think you know me better than I know myself. I love you all so much. Thanks.

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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steph2.0

Hi Friends,

I have a dilemma. I have very little sense of style or fashion, and I want to get some glasses that fit the new me better. I've uploaded pics to Zenni Optical, and leaning heavily on Cassie, have whittled down the choices from the original 28 I'd picked out, to three styles, two of which have two different colors. It would be so appreciated if you would all apply your sense of high style and let me know what you think.

I uploaded a picture with my hair down, and another with it up, compiled everything together, and created this page. Please let me know which is your favorite.

Thanks muchly!

Stephanie



Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Laurie

April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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