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Started by steph2.0, September 17, 2017, 11:42:47 PM

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Kendra

You'll do great - and once you get the hang of NYC transportation it's easy to get around. 

And hey, with that seasonal weather you don't need a refrigerator.
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Laurie

Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 14, 2018, 01:09:33 PM
We're in our room at the Hampton Inn near Battery Park. So far it's been airliners, buses, trains, and subways. Learning fast and having an adventure. For those who don't know, this is our first time in NYC. I haven't even thought much about presenting. Just being at ease being me. Been treated very well by everyone. Getting fabulous as I prepare for my first appointment at 4pm with the mental health consultant at Mt. Sinai, Dr. Elizabeth Berk. Gonna wow her!

Stephanie and the Dragon Lady (AKA Sue)

Oh WoW you're going to wow everyone wowie zowie.
  Have a good consult.

Hugs,
   Laurie

https://www.google.com/search?q=wowie+zowie&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b-1
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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steph2.0

Quote from: Laurie on March 14, 2018, 11:25:24 AM
Hi S(((te)p(h)a)n)i)(e),

  You will have fun. You will get the interviews done. You will be scheduled for surgery. And you will enjoy your visit to the big Fruit. Then you will return home to visit with a long put off Laurie who will have been impatiently for you and Sue to get back, settled in and ready to give an audience to her.

Hugs and Joy ful outcome from your trip.

Laurie

I'm so looking forward to it! And, surprise!, I've made arrangements to have custody of the plane on Monday and Tuesday, so if the weather is good you'll get your airplane ride. I'll be picking up the plane on Sunday evening. And there's a dang good chance that @sassycassie will be with us that day, too!

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Kendra

Ship it north!  I wanna see a video of you taking off from Central Park. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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steph2.0

Quote from: Kendra on March 14, 2018, 01:51:39 PM
Ship it north!  I wanna see a video of you taking off from Central Park.

Captain Sillyburger, going in the Hudson.


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Cassi

Can see the headlines now:

"Transisters Circle The Empire State Building"
HRT since 1/04/2018
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steph2.0

We took the subway north and found the office at 275 7th Ave an hour early, so we're at brgr, a block down, getting a late lunch.

The cold is bad, but the winds gusting to 25mph is just brutal. I give up on my hair...



Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Jayne01

Check out Gray's Papaya. Not bad for a hot dog. Place has been there for years and has made it into all the travel guides as a place to go.

https://goo.gl/maps/qozSDxX7HDB2 Gray's Papaya
2090 Broadway, New York, NY 10023, USA
+1 212-799-0243

That's if you find yourself around there. I thought you said 75th not 275th. Wow, that's way up there, almost in Canada. [emoji846]

Enjoy the big fruit, you know what they say, an apple a day....... oh never mind, you don't actually want to keep the doctor away.

Hope the appointments go well for you.

Jayne
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KathyLauren

Enjoy the Big Apple.  I hope your appointments go smoothly.

Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 14, 2018, 02:28:29 PM
The cold is bad, but the winds gusting to 25mph is just brutal. I give up on my hair...

Welcome to the north.  Well, not the true north (that's us, strong and free), but kind of north-ish.  God created cold so that we girls could wear nice sweaters.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Sarah_P

We've got a brgr in Kansas City, I love it!

Have a good time! I'm sure everything will go well for you.
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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steph2.0

Well, I'm starting another day in the big fruit place, and the first thing that I wanted to do was visit with you all here.

It is sooooo cold. Just brutal, in the upper 30sF and winds high enough to blow my purse off my shoulder. Being from Michigan, I know I was able to deal with this in the past, but after 15 years in Florida that capability no longer exists. Kudos, Kathy, for being able to handle it. I admit that having a nicer variety of clothes to wear beyond shorts, skirts, and short sleeve tops is attractive, but OMG. Cold hurts.

I don't have a lot of time to write, but wanted to let you know that the interview went wonderfully. We wowed each other. She was so nice, and at the end of the half hour she was at her computer writing the second recommendation letter to send my insurance company. Here we are as I left.



This is the nondescript entrance to the building on 7th Avenue. The clinic is on the 12th floor, and you would never know about the bustling practice that's going upstairs.



That lady looks really cold.

I was elated by how well it had gone, but was headed for a wall. We left the office and went to the Empire State Building, which was pretty cool, but after a while there my energy levels bottomed out, and my mood with it. We'd been up since 4am and the stress of traveling, the excitement of the consultation, and the cold just drained the last power from my battery. Add in a couple of minor misgendering incidents, and the cruel way the wind was doing its best to make sure everyone could see my receding hairline, and I hit bottom. It was nothing like a meltdown, but it was a pretty black mood. We schlepped back south in the underground tubey thing and collapsed in the hotel.

Things did improve later when we went out to eat and we ladies were treated like ladies. So after a good nights sleep all is well again. And my wife is sighing about me wasting time here instead of getting moving, so I'd better go. More later!

Stephanie



Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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steph2.0

I forgot to add that Elizabeth was yet another therapist/psychiatrist who'd never heard of Susan's Place. I corrected that oversight! She actually wrote it down. When we talked a little about my therapist, I told her how I rarely needed to meet with her any more, since all you wonderful people pretty much take her place. She seemed impressed, and I suspect she'll be taking a look.

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Kendra

Sooo glad your first meeting went great! 

MtF HRT amped up my sensory perception and that includes the perception of temperature.  I've found cold is no longer a mild distraction, it just plain hurts.  As for the wind messing with your hairline, there's 2 or 3 Target stores on Manhattan - drop by and get a nice grey snow hat to go with that coat.  Or for a more memorable shopping experience there is Macy's on 34th.

Enjoy getting some rest and thaw out. 
Assigned male at birth 1963.  Decided I wanted to be a girl in 1971.  Laser 2014-16, electrolysis 2015-17, HRT 7/2017, GCS 1/2018, VFS 3/2018, FFS 5/2018, Labiaplasty & BA 7/2018. 
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Laurie

Hi S((t((e)p)a)(n)ie),

  Cold?  I was wearing shorts and a T-shirt yesterday. It's been bright and sunny here. Temp in the 60s. Nice warm weather if you ask me. I don't know what you are complaining about.
  Glad the consult went well and ((Slap)) What's this about a dark mood. You are up there for a good thing young lady now enjoy it. One more negative comment and you'll be on the fridge again...

  Mark my words and give Saintly Sue a hug for me. Now smile prettily and enjoy your trip.

Hugs,
   Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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steph2.0

Quote from: Laurie on March 15, 2018, 09:43:48 AM
Hi S((t((e)p)a)(n)ie),

  Cold?  I was wearing shorts and a T-shirt yesterday. It's been bright and sunny here. Temp in the 60s. Nice warm weather if you ask me. I don't know what you are complaining about.
  Glad the consult went well and ((Slap)) What's this about a dark mood. You are up there for a good thing young lady now enjoy it. One more negative comment and you'll be on the fridge again...

  Mark my words and give Saintly Sue a hug for me. Now smile prettily and enjoy your trip.

Hugs,
   Laurie

That's it. I'm moving to Florida.

Doing the best I can. Lots of stress but better today. In line for tickets to Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island now. Thinking about the Natural History museum after the appointments tomorrow. Don't know about this afternoon yet. Will probably stay around the south end of Manhattan. Maybe freedom tower or 911 memorial. Playing it by ear...

Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Michelle_P

The 9/11 memorial plaza and sunken fountains is beautiful.  The museum below ground is very well done, but bring tissues.  It takes a few hours to do it justice.
Earth my body, water my blood, air my breath and fire my spirit.

My personal transition path included medical changes.  The path others take may require no medical intervention, or different care.  We each find our own path. I provide these dates for the curious.
Electrolysis - Hours in The Chair: 238 (8.5 were preparing for GCS, five clearings); On estradiol patch June 2016; Full-time Oct 22, 2016; GCS Oct 20, 2017; FFS Aug 28, 2018; Stage 2 labiaplasty revision and BA Feb 26, 2019
Michelle's personal blog and biography
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Jayne01

Great news about your first appointment with Mt Sinai. I never had any doubt that it would go well.

Here is another (((slap))) young lady. You stick that dark mood back into the closet and get out there and enjoy that awesome city. Got it! And what is this whining about cold temps. I just returned from Europe with -20 degrees C temps (-4 F for those of you that don't soeak English! And I am from Sydney with a climate similar to Florida.[emoji16]

Just kidding, that is cold. Get yourself some theramals if you don't already have some, they work very well.

Laurie, it sounds like she is in the fridge, no need to put her on top.

Jayne
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steph2.0

Holy smokes. We stood in line outside in the cold wind for three hours to get through airport style security before we could get on the boat to Liberty Island. Finally started motoring out there at 2pm.



We definitely qualified as "huddled masses" as we toured the island in the cold.



Then on to Ellis Island. We found the names of three of Sue's relatives on the wall of fame, and toured the old immigration building. It was a huge operation in its day.





And I said, hey, why not?:



At 5pm they kicked us out and we road the boat back to Battery Park.



A selfie in front of the terminal for the Staten Island Ferry, and back to the hotel.



Obviously that stuff ate up the entire day. No more touring tonight. Now we're trying to decide where to have dinner. It needs to be cheaper than the $103 meal we had last night, but not as cheap as the Taco Bell that Sue wants.

Last night was at a cool old inn called Fraunces Tavern. Built in 1762, it's where George Washington said goodbye to his troops. Good food but small portions, and not worth that much green. But I'm cheap.



Warming up with hot chocolate, then into the cold hard world for dinner. Then back to the hotel early to get plenty of sleep so I can impress the last two interviewers tomorrow starting at 9am.

Oh, I had planned to get breath mints for tomorrow, and when I saw this I couldn't resist:



Stephanie


Assigned male at birth 1958 * Began envying sister 1963 * Knew unquestioningly that I was female 1968 * Acted the male part for 50 years * Meltdown and first therapist session May 2017 * Began HRT 6/21/17 * Out to the world 10/13/17 * Name Change 12/7/2017 (Girl Harbor Day) * FFS With FacialTeam 12/4/2018 * Facelift and Lipo Body Sculpting at Ocean Clinic 6/13-14/2019 * GCS with Marci Bowers 9/25/2019
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Sarah_P

Sounds like you ladies are having a great time!
--Sarah P

There's a world out there, just waiting
If you only let go what's inside
Live every moment, give it your all, enjoy the ride
- Stan Bush, The Journey



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Laurie

We've been doing a little sight seeing here too. Tonight it was the Texas Roadhouse in The Villages.  It happened...



Left to right: My long time friend Becky, Myself, And Cassie.

A good time was had by all.

Hugs,
  Laurie
April 13, 2019 switched to estradiol valerate
December 20, 2018    Referral sent to OHSU Dr Dugi  for vaginoplasty consult
December 10, 2018    Second Letter VA Psychiatric Practical nurse
November 15, 2018    First letter from VA therapist
May 11, 2018 I am Laurie Jeanette Wickwire
May   3, 2018 Submitted name change forms
Aug 26, 2017 another increase in estradiol
Jun  26, 2017 Last day in male attire That's full time I guess
May 20, 2017 doubled estradiol
May 18, 2017 started electrolysis
Dec   4, 2016 Started estradiol and spironolactone



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