So, I guess this is a question of whether or not to come out at all post-op. I've read other threads about this particular topic, but I haven't quite reached a conclusion. When's the best time to come out if someone decides to? I have this sense of looming guilt about not telling guys even when they hit on me, but that could very well just be me.
Anyway, for background, I'm not post-op yet. It could be a thing in the near future. MTF. I pass in a weird, tomboyish way. I'm 6'2" with broad shoulders, an athletic lifestyle, short hair and rarely any makeup. Other than that, I have a very feminine face, a husky-but-feminine voice and not much that would distinguish me from a female athlete. So, I do indeed pass.
I'm starting to date now and I'm feeling really lost here. Guys bolt or fade away once I tell them. And if they don't, they stop treating me like a woman, the parts of me they found unique and attractive become disgusting tells. I'm wondering if I should at all? I tend avoid sex for as long as possible anyway.
