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I came out to my wife yesterday

Started by Faith, December 23, 2017, 06:44:25 AM

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KathyLauren

Hi, Linda!

I notice that this is your first post, so I wanted to jump in and welcome you to Susan's.

Please feel free to stop by the Introductions forum to tell the members about yourself.  Here is some information that we like to share with new members:

Things that you should read





2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Faith

Quote from: linda troung vu on December 30, 2017, 12:15:22 AM
Hi there darling im so glad that you had the guts to tell your wife about it I really wish I could be as brave enough as you and tell my wife and family members about me. 😆 im 47 years old and I have 2 kid's and a great life as a man. I used to go out every 2nd Saturday night dressing up and going to transexual clubs and I lies to my wife that im working. I've been doing this for 10 years. 😆 💖 she found out about me dressed up and going out with other trans girls. We nearly divorce and sell our house. I just told her that I liked to dress up as a cross dresser sometimes. 😆 💖 but anyway enough of my stuff. im wishing you the best and blessings for the new year and your new life as a woman darling 😆 💖 💋

Thank You Linda.
There isn't a single right way to tell anyone what we're going through. Everyone's situation is a bit different. If you read my previous posts you'll realize that this one, while a milestone, was more about telling myself than telling her. She already knew. Full admission to myself was hard.

Within a month of my suspicions of why I'd been depressed for years, I told her. She progressed right along side of me as I figured out what was going on. She was calling me a girl before I was. Maybe that's backwards for some here. It worked, and is still working, for me. I can't count my blessings, the number is too high. I do know which blessing is at the top of the list though.
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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anne_indy

Hi Faith - clearly, I am quite late coming to your thread. Your coming out to yourself and your wife was a truly beautiful and touching story. I seldom get the "ocular leakage " others report. But your story truly did bring tears to my eyes. I have yet to reveal myself to my wife. Your story is the outcome I would love to receive. But I'm not sure my wife is understanding of the TG struggle.

I look forward to reading the unfolding story of your blossoming.

Anne


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Faith

Quote from: anne_indy on January 04, 2018, 04:37:42 PM
Hi Faith - clearly, I am quite late coming to your thread. Your coming out to yourself and your wife was a truly beautiful and touching story. I seldom get the "ocular leakage " others report. But your story truly did bring tears to my eyes. I have yet to reveal myself to my wife. Your story is the outcome I would love to receive. But I'm not sure my wife is understanding of the TG struggle.

I look forward to reading the unfolding story of your blossoming.

Anne

I glad my rambling touched you in a positive way. I wish I could say that you'd have the same result when you decide to share. The reactions are a varied as there are people to tell. There is only one way to know which one you'll get.

Not telling is a huge burden, that I can state unequivocally.
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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MeTony

I'm very happy for you Faith!

My husband has stated we will go separate ways when I start looking more like a guy and change my name because he is not gay. But we will still be best friends.

Give your wonderful wife a tight hug, she is a precious person to support you and can help to guide you to your womanhood.

Admitting to myself that I am transgender took me more than 10 years of chaos and depressions. Congratulations for taking this huge step.

I love reading happy stories.


Tony
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