Last year my "resolution" for 2017 was to start therapy, get my parents involved, and get on T. I did a darn good job in completing those goals - been in therapy since January, my parents have ben coming (mom more regularly than dad but he came a few times too), and i've been on T four months now.
I was just thinking about what i wanted to do for 2018. There's a huge list of things i need to do but i think i can narrow it down:
1) Name and gender marker change
2) Enjoy the physical changes from being on T
3) Start the process for top surgery (i have to consult with hematologist first and foremost - then find a surgeon - then set a date - i'm shooting for 2019)
4) Save up $$ for top surgery costs that aren't covered by insurance (and find out what IS covered)
5) Be healthier (start an exercise routine, eat better/healthier, lose the gut)
Top five, right there, and no particular order i guess. I've been working on #5 already with some good results, but the holidays sort of got me (hello mom's home made fudge). I think transition wise my next thing is going to be the name change. Once that's out of the way i can focus on top surgery. In the mean time, enjoying the changes and working on my overall health.
Not related to transitioning, but i'm always saving up $$ to some day open my own business - once i get my transition fully out of the way i can focus 100% on that. It's exciting to be one step closer!
