Being "B*tchy?

[Ellement_of_Freedom]

What the hell happened to this topic...?

[Natsuki Kuga]

What the hell happened to this topic...?

If you can't say anything nice...

[alex82]

What the hell happened to this topic...?

Wondered that too. Now it's all in jokes and cheesy stereotypes about chocolate.

Couldn't possibly be that it's an individual having a bad day/week/life - no, not if it's a woman - it must be periods and she must be sedated with chocolate by ever so confused little men. Load of hackneyed old nonsense.

If any man (or woman) presented me with a bar of chocolate instead of listening to what I had to say, or joked about non existent periods, we'd have a serious problem. 'Bitchy' wouldn't begin to cover my response to being treated like some kind of hormonal halfwit who lives a stereotype instead of a life that's mature and sometimes complex.

You don't want to listen to me or have a dialogue? So here's a bar of chocolate because 'women can't resist' and now you're eating, you're not talking, thank god. That chocolate would be left with them, or dropped into a homeless persons bucket, and I'd be feeling mightily patronized.

[Julia1996]

Wondered that too. Now it's all in jokes and cheesy stereotypes about chocolate.

Couldn't possibly be that it's an individual having a bad day/week/life - no, not if it's a woman - it must be periods and she must be sedated with chocolate by ever so confused little men. Load of hackneyed old nonsense.

If any man (or woman) presented me with a bar of chocolate instead of listening to what I had to say, or joked about non existent periods, we'd have a serious problem. 'Bitchy' wouldn't begin to cover my response to being treated like some kind of hormonal halfwit who lives a stereotype instead of a life that's mature and sometimes complex.

You don't want to listen to me or have a dialogue? So here's a bar of chocolate because 'women can't resist' and now you're eating, you're not talking, thank god. That chocolate would be left with them, or dropped into a homeless persons bucket, and I'd be feeling mightily patronized.

Well I would say the topic is back on track now. It was about people being bitchy. Nailed it.

[alex82]

Well I would say the topic is back on track now. It was about people being bitchy. Nailed it.

Only if you think feminism and equality is bitchy.

There's an important point that women aren't often listened to or heard, and our stresses and strains are often belittled, and that's a terrible shame.

We have an ideal opportunity to forge a less stereotyped path, to the benefit of women generally, as fully supportive allies of.

[Cassi]

Only if you think feminism and equality is bitchy.

Well, kinda.  I think feminism and equality is bitchen!

[Cassi]

Bitchin'
1) similar to "awesome" or "bad ass"
2) when someone complains, mainly female
1) "man, ya ride is bitchin'!"

[Jenntrans]

Bitchin'
1) similar to "awesome" or "bad ass"
2) when someone complains, mainly female
1) "man, ya ride is bitchin'!"

Only number 2 applies to me.

But... I bitch and complain sometimes. Well not exactly true because it is quite a bit.

Behind every successful man mainly there has been a woman trans or straight supporting him. That does sound kind of sexist and I know.

But sometimes men need their egos stroked. Not getting sexual but when they love someone no matter who or what they need us in their corners.

There is way more to being a woman than just clothes and hair.

[Cassi]

Only number 2 applies to me.

But... I bitch and complain sometimes. Well not exactly true because it is quite a bit.

Behind every successful man mainly there has been a woman trans or straight supporting him. That does sound kind of sexist and I know.

But sometimes men need their egos stroked. Not getting sexual but when they love someone no matter who or what they need us in their corners.

There is way more to being a woman than just clothes and hair.

Very very true.

[Rachel]

I do E via IM. When I was on a 14 day cycle I would feel the drop in E and it was difficult to hold back. I have been on a 10 day cycle for a while now and it helps. I have not been on P for at least a year or two ago. I just started T (a dab every other day) and I have not noticed any negative effects and perhaps some good.

On a diet then bakers chocolate. I have it at home and work. I also have some 90% chocolate in my bedroom .

I try to be nice all the time. My downfall is stress. Put me under stress and the nice goes away.

[Cassi]

Hi Rach!

My doctor has me on the patches which every time I put them on within hours they crinkle and wedge for lack of a better term.  Once they're on I really don't feel them so if they fall out I don't even know it.

I have already let her know that the patches aren't really working for me unless it's a one a day because of them falling off.  We'll see in May when my next appointment is.

I've read elsewhere on this site when I first joined that a lot of women feel the "E" leave them and get bitchy or something else but I really never thought that might be what it is for me.

Thanks!

[Jenntrans]

OH Jesus. Who don't get bitchy. I have had boyfriends that bitched more than me. Get a load of this... I am a Bitch.

Seriously though. If guys had to shave their legs everyday or wax them or go through electrolysis or laser they would whine.

I shaved a boyfriends pubes one time and did it so nice but he complained about the itching and the pain until the hair peaked back out. OMG the whining. Yet he wanted me totally smooth even my arms.

I do think he had a lot of "Roid" rage though and I ain't talking Hemorrhoids either. He was a body builder. He was kind of abusive but never really hurt me too much other than ugh....spankings?? I would be lying if I said I didn't enjoy it. Sometimes at least.

[Cassi]

OH Jesus. Who don't get bitchy. I have had boyfriends that bitched more than me. Get a load of this... I am a Bitch.

Seriously though. If guys had to shave their legs everyday or wax them or go through electrolysis or laser they would whine.

I shaved a boyfriends pubes one time and did it so nice but he complained about the itching and the pain until the hair peaked back out. OMG the whining. Yet he wanted me totally smooth even my arms.

I do think he had a lot of "Roid" rage though and I ain't talking Hemorrhoids either. He was a body builder. He was kind of abusive but never really hurt me too much other than ugh....spankings?? I would be lying if I said I didn't enjoy it. Sometimes at least.

Well, I just decided to be the Queen Bitch of the World and all are my subjects!!!!!

[V M]

Hi friends 

Word from Cindy

Sorry-

But this song and dance needs to come to a halt and a few folks need to clean up their act a bit

Thank you

V M