What are you thinking 11.0

[Jessica]

I was at dinner with friends last night. There was a couple, man and woman, sitting next to us. I noticed he kept staring at me the entire time.. I felt awful for his wife sitting right there with him... I can't believe someone would do that [emoji26]
My friend said he didn't look over at the guy but could feel the staring. Ugh idk what to think anymore

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If someone was sitting near me and obviously staring at me.  I would look him straight in the eye and say, " whatcha lookin' at Willis?"  It's very rude!  If it continued, I would speak to the manager.

[Allison S]

If someone was sitting near me and obviously staring at me.  I would look him straight in the eye and say, " whatcha lookin' at Willis?"  It's very rude!  If it continued, I would speak to the manager.

That's the thing, he kept looking away as soon as I would look over.. the thing is one of my friends was sitting on my right closer to the couples table.. well they didn't stay very long

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[Jessica]

That's the thing, he kept looking away as soon as I would look over.. the thing is one of my friends was sitting on my right closer to the couples table.. well they didn't stay very long

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This is staring, but at a lesser degree than what I was thinking.  I'd chalk it up to curiosity.  Often it's without malice, just new.  Rude all the same though.

[Allison S]

This is staring, but at a lesser degree than what I was thinking.  I'd chalk it up to curiosity.  Often it's without malice, just new.  Rude all the same though.

I just felt bad for his wife/gf.. It is rude

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[Northern Star Girl]

I was at dinner with friends last night. There was a couple, man and woman, sitting next to us. I noticed he kept staring at me the entire time.. I felt awful for his wife sitting right there with him... I can't believe someone would do that [emoji26]
My friend said he didn't look over at the guy but could feel the staring. Ugh idk what to think anymore

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@Allison S   .... This is so sad for sure.  Unfortunately for just about all of us that have transitioned or are transitioning ... this is not new news.   I hope that the wife gave him the riot act for his bad behavior.

I liked the reply post from @Jessica ... "Whatcha lookin' at.........." 
I have done that too, acknowledge and call the perpetrator out verbally so that everyone can hear.   My usually comment is... "Take a picture, it will last longer."

Please promise me that you will never let that sort of rude behavior detract you from concentrating on your transition journey and goals.  Keep going out there and presenting yourself... that is one of the best ways that you can continually progress.

Sorry you had to go through that.... thanks for your posting.
Hugs,
Danielle

[Allison S]

@Allison S   .... This is so sad for sure.  Unfortunately for just about all of us that have transitioned or are transitioning ... this is not new news.   I hope that the wife gave him the riot act for his bad behavior.

I liked the reply post from @Jessica ... "Whatcha lookin' at.........." 
I have done that too, acknowledge and call the perpetrator out verbally so that everyone can hear.   My usually comment is... "Take a picture, it will last longer."

Please promise me that you will never let that sort of rude behavior detract you from concentrating on your transition journey and goals.  Keep going out there and presenting yourself... that is one of the best ways that you can continually progress.

Sorry you had to go through that.... thanks for your posting.
Hugs,
Danielle

Well I was uncomfortable because his wife was sitting right across from him. Otherwise I wouldn't care, not the first or last guy to check me out. Usually they're not as bold about it..

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[King Malachite]

I wonder if there has been a "What are you thinking" thread that has went past 2,000 posts accidentally before being locked.

[Dee Marshall]

I've been thinking about retirement.

Next month I'll be 59. I can retire in three years, wait another eight or wait eleven. For those others to be worth while I'd need to keep the same income or better for all that time which will be hard. If I retire at 62 I'll be able to retire with about the same income I have now but probably untaxed.

Unfortunately, that isn't quite a living wage here, my marriage is winding up, and the only thing keeping me here is Randi, anyway. So, I'm looking at affordablebpossibilities. The top of my list right now is Cozumel, Mexico. Lots of research yet to do. Lots of tasks, too. In Central America,and the affordable places here I need to be stealth. I also have to get a lot better with Spanish.

The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.

[Allison S]

That I'm not sure how I'm not in a psych hospital right now and somehow managing things I never thought I could

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[Dee Marshall]

That I'm not sure how I'm not in a psych hospital right now and somehow managing things I never thought I could

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Because being pre-transition puts so much extra stress on us that everything seems easier after we start transitioning?

I know the garbage I'm going through would have killed me pre-transition. (Of course much of it is attributable to my transition.)

The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.

[Allison S]

Because being pre-transition puts so much extra stress on us that everything seems easier after we start transitioning?

I know the garbage I'm going through would have killed me pre-transition. (Of course much of it is attributable to my transition.)

The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.

Maybe, I did feel better after letting that out. Then I talked to my mom and said a few more things I've been holding on to, and didn't even think I cared much.

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[Michelle_P]

I don't need you to be my "Voice for The Voiceless!"  Just pass me the damn microphone!

[Christy Lee]

Thinking about my next Therapy session and how scary it is,  the first session i went to was just going through my history and i casually mentioned i have thoughts about my gender, and would like to explore that more in the next session which is next Wednesday super nervous

[TicTac]

I am wondering why I keep myself up this late. Also, it seems that I am hungry so there is that. These are some pretty interesting thoughts here 

[Sephirah]

I'm still here.

Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing, but it is what it is.

Oh, and hospitals suck.

[V M]

Glad you're still here Seph.

"Oh, and hospitals suck" - True that

Hugs

[Cindy]

Hospitals suck? Tell me about it!!!!

So glad you are OK Hon

[Christy Lee]

I'm still here.

Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing, but it is what it is.

Oh, and hospitals suck.

It is a good thing

AND YES.  Hospitals do suck

[V M]

I'm wondering if it's possible to actually die of boredom

[Devlyn]

You can tell when it's closing time at Pub Pubmed, all the self-edjamucated doctors show up here!