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Started by Northern Star Girl, June 06, 2018, 10:46:46 AM

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davina61

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Northern Star Girl

Quote from: Gabrielle66 on October 08, 2018, 02:52:53 PM
Danielle,

I just wanted to say thank you for being such a positive person and for inspiring me to be more positive in my own outlook. I have lived most of my life in a very pessimistic way. You seem to be able to exude a light that is palpable even over the internet. It just felt important for you to know that you have helped me to become a more positive person in a very short time. One day I hope to be able to honestly say that I'm a positive person like you. It wouldn't be true if I said it today but someday it will be. Please keep inspiring those of us who find it more difficult to see the light than you do. Love and faith.

Gabrielle

@Gabrielle66
Dear Gabrielle:
Thank you so much for coming here to my thread...  it is nice to know that the words that are shared here are appreciated and helpful to others.

If you have not done so already, I might suggest that if you can take the time that you might want to read the entire thread from the beginning.  There are many good and very helpful shared thoughts from other followers and myself that would be possibly helpful for you and others to read.

Thanks for your comment reply and your nice words.
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@davina61 and @Katie Jade
You girls are silly....  and thanks Davina for leaving Katie and me the doughnut holes.... 
so very kind of you !!!  :) ;) :o
Thanks for coming here and reading my thread... I hope that you find some helpful and good thoughts on here... and always feel free to share here too.
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Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on October 08, 2018, 05:02:44 PM
@davina61 and @Katie Jade
You girls are silly....  and thanks Davina for leaving Katie and me the doughnut holes.... 
so very kind of you !!!  :) ;) :o
Thanks for coming here and reading my thread... I hope that you find some helpful and good thoughts on here... and always feel free to share here too.
Hugs,
Danielle

Sorry but the holes are already mine - you can fight over the rings with Davina...
Hmm that sounds funny but you know what I mean - I have to catch Davina up in the good looking stakes.

Luv n Hugz

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Donica

Oh I love the doughnut holes too!!!! I just hate the weight gain ???
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Faith

I don't know if this, or something similar, is posted. I am not much for positive thinking having spent my life dwelling on the negative. So .. short-story ...

Lori had a bag of stuff given to her for our yard sale (we don't have a garage). Picking through it a book fell out. She picked it up and it opened up to the page with this printed on it:

I love and accept myself completely as I am.
I don't have to try to please anyone else. I like myself and that's what counts
I am highly pleasing to myself in the presence of other people.
I express myself freely, fully, and easily.
I am a powerful, loving, and creative being.

--- Shakti Gawain

The book is called, Moments of Meditation

Sometimes things literally fall into your lap.
I left the door open, only a few came through. such is my life.
Bluesky:@faithnd.bsky.social

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Alice (nym)

I've not read the entire thread... it's 11 pages long... so forgive me if I am repeating something that has already been said.

I am not usually big on the YouTubers who seem to make careers out of arguing with each other and criticizing each other instead of producing original creative content. But I stumbled on this video that was posted 3 days ago by Onision. I think it fits in with this thread. It is about being positive about being trans and removing the hate from your life.

So I am not sure if I am allowed to put links but you can search the video if you are interested:
Username: Onision
Video Title: Gender Dysphoria: Not A Mental Illness (Research: World Health Organization)

I think it is perhaps easier said than done for some of us but I think it is something we can aim at... removing our negativity and accepting who we are. I also think the message that we need to stick together and not hate each other is an important one. There is enough hate from the alt-right and elsewhere without trans people hating each other, calling each other slurs, attacking people who transition later in life, and accusing people of not being trans enough. We need to accept ourselves, present a united front, and then society might be more accepting of us. So well done to Onision for posting that video.
Don't hate the hate... Start spreading the love.
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Northern Star Girl

Quote from: Faith on October 13, 2018, 06:56:32 AM
I don't know if this, or something similar, is posted. I am not much for positive thinking having spent my life dwelling on the negative. So .. short-story ...

Lori had a bag of stuff given to her for our yard sale (we don't have a garage). Picking through it a book fell out. She picked it up and it opened up to the page with this printed on it:

I love and accept myself completely as I am.
I don't have to try to please anyone else. I like myself and that's what counts
I am highly pleasing to myself in the presence of other people.
I express myself freely, fully, and easily.
I am a powerful, loving, and creative being.

--- Shakti Gawain

The book is called, Moments of Meditation

Sometimes things literally fall into your lap.

@Faith
Dear Faith:
Ah ha, someone, somewhere, somehow, knew what you might need to read!!!! 
Thank you for posting those instructional words that were on the page that fell out of the book.  All of those words and sentences certainly apply to all of us.

The key sentence in my opinion is the first one on that page:
       "I love and accept myself completely as I am."

Thanks for posting and sharing.... and be sure to start reading that book ASAP.
Hugs,
Danielle
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Donica

Now that's a warm and relaxing avatar Danielle. Love it! Keepin the tootsies warm.

Thank you Faith for all the positive words from Shakti Gawain. They are definitely words to remember.

Hugs ladies!
Donica.
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Northern Star Girl

To my thread's Followers and Readers:
Here is a little philosophy from me today.....

I was reminded of this by one of my very successful business clients this morning... 
...about the difference between Small Minds, Average Minds and Great Minds....

Small Minds       ...  discuss people
Average Minds   ...  discuss events
Great Minds       ...  discuss ideas


...and of the traits of "Strong" and Successful people.

Strong and Successful People make as many mistakes as Weak People. 
The difference is that strong people admit their mistakes and learn from them.

This is good stuff, no wonder that my client is very successful as a business person.

NOTE:  If any of my readers have any wisdom to share, this is the place to do it.

Best Wishes,
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randim

I have always love the quote:

"Life is a shipwreck, but we must remember to sing in the lifeboats."
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Northern Star Girl

Quote from: randim on October 31, 2018, 03:52:50 PM
I have always love the quote:

"Life is a shipwreck, but we must remember to sing in the lifeboats."

@randim
I like it !!!
Even in the middle of a difficulty, if we ponder and seek positive solutions we can many times find a way solution.

Kinda similar to "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade"

Thank you for sharing your thoughts... please feel free to post here again.
Best wishes,
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Allison S

Quote from: randim on October 31, 2018, 03:52:50 PM
I have always love the quote:

"Life is a shipwreck, but we must remember to sing in the lifeboats."
That's such a good quote. I probably would be the one dancing though [emoji4]

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Donica

Don't fear the challenge. Embrace the challenge. It is this take it head on, I can do this, take charge attitude that has made my career so successful. Of course it helps if you love what you do.

I believe this can be applied to any facet of life. Not just our careers but everyday tasks of life as well.

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Jessica

Quote from: randim on October 31, 2018, 03:52:50 PM
I have always love the quote:

"Life is a shipwreck, but we must remember to sing in the lifeboats."

I must say this is a great quote!
I would pair it with "stopping to smell the roses"...life is too short to bemoan it.

Hugs and smiles from a California girl

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Coffeedrew

      
This will be a special post because I will list all of my quotes on my wall that have got me through the years.
Each of these quotes have a meaning to me because of events in my life.
I once heard somewhere, somebody said " Tape quotes on your bedroom wall, and you will be surprised of the results you get.",and I did not think much of it. I did it because I had looked up a bunch of negative erotic hypnosis tracks, and I was depressed when I was cross dressing in woman clothes. This is what made me do a 360, and change my life. I am not saying life is perfect nor I do not face struggles.We do not get many second chances, and this time I will not waste a second more. There is always something that can be done for any situation. We just have to figure it out, and this brings me to my first quote.

Something from Albert Einstein- the wording has been lost to me, but it went something like this. If I had an hour to solve a problem or save the world.I'd spend 55 minutes figuring out a solution and the last 5 minutes solving the problem.
The next quote is a personal favorite of mine    "What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals." -Henry David Thoreau

The next two are the Army Values and the Army Ranger Creed and Army Soldier's Creed.

The next one is from Jedi Master Yoda " No! Try Not! Do or Do not! There is no try."

Cookie  Monster "Sometimes Me Think, "What is Friend?" and then me say "Friend is someone to share the last cookie with"

Yes You Can - I give credit to whoever said this

Behind Every successful person is a substantial amount of coffee. I give credit to who wrote this.

Life is about taking risks and never giving up hope,no matter how lost you are, everyone eventually finds their own way. I give credit to who wrote this.

Often when you think you're at the end of something, your're at the beginning of something else. I give credit to who wrote this.

A true Leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others.He does not set out to be a leader, but becomes one by the equality of his actions and the integrity of his intent. I give credit to who wrote this.

The moment when you want to quit, is the moment when you need to keep pushing. I give credit to who wrote this.

Success in life comes when you simply refuse to give up, with goals so strong that obstacles, failure and loss only at as motivation. I give credit to who wrote this.

Newt Gingrich- Perseverance is the hard work you do after you get tired of doing the hard work you already did.

Don't give up just because of what someone said. Use that motivation to push harder. I give credit to who wrote this.

George Patton Jr- A good plan executed today is better than a perfect plan executed at some indefinite point in the future.

I took a great risk by telling my dad when I came out. I could always tell him anything, and my therapist told me not to tell him.I knew I would harm our relationship more by not telling him and breaking his trust then just telling him the truth.He did not want to hear that, but after I told him this he told me he still loves me.

I want to inspire people I want someone to look at me and say "Because of you I didn't give up." I give credit to who wrote this.

The secret of our success is that we never, never give up. I give credit to who wrote this.

Sam Levenson- Don't Watch the clock: Do what it does. Keep Going

What counts is not necessarily the size of the dog in the fight - It's the size of the fight in the dog.- Dwight D. Eisenhower

Never Give up on what you really want to do. The person with big dreams is more powerful than one with all the facts. -Albert Einstein

The more you sweat in peace, the less you bleed in war.- Norman Schwarzkopf

Strength doesn't come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn't. I give credit to who wrote this.

Coffee doesn't ask silly questions coffee understands. I give credit to who wrote this.

I don't know where I'm going from here, but I promise it won't be boring. - David Bowie

Actually I just woke up one day and decided I didn't want to feel like that anymore or ever again. So I changed. Just like that. I give credit to who wrote this.

When life knocks you down, it's testing you to see whether you have the strength or not to stand back up. Don't Give up. I give credit to who wrote this.

I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times. Bruce Lee

Never Give In. Never give in.
Never, never, never, never--
in nothing, great or small,
large or petty-- never give in,
except to convictions of honer
and good sense.
Never yield to force.
Never yield to the apparently overwhelming might of the enemy. - Winston Churchill

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but you have not idea who I am. I give credit to who wrote this.

I have a few more, but these are the main ones that get me through anything. One day I want a whole wall or a whole room covered in them, a office with natural light windows, a lush green garden in front of the window, and with a desk  facing towards the window to write at.

I hope this will help somebody out one day, and like my dad says its cheating because I did all the work for you, and you just have to print this out :p. Love, Coffeedrew.
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Northern Star Girl

@Coffeedrew 
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and your inspirational quotes with everyone on my thread.

You are always welcome here to post things like you did. 

I will be looking forward to seeing your additional posts here.

Danielle
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Donica

I learn something new everyday, and everyday I feel dumber. I'm guessing in another 30 years, I will feel like the dumbest person in the universe.

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Northern Star Girl

Quote from: Donica on November 27, 2018, 10:58:58 AM
I learn something new everyday, and everyday I feel dumber. I'm guessing in another 30 years, I will feel like the dumbest person in the universe.

Donica.

@Donica
Dear Donica:
You are saying what we can all say as we get older....   older and wiser!!!
   
When we stop learning, we stop striving to be a better person....   
When we stop learning, we stop living.

As we go through life, we may have more answers but the new questions keep coming even faster.
The "more that we know" results in the"more that we do not know."

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this thread, you are always welcome here.
Hugs,
Danielle
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