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Long wait for transition

Started by Lucca, June 06, 2018, 10:26:53 PM

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Lucca

I'm pretty sure I want to transition at this point and have begun the earliest steps, but it's going reeeeaaally slowly. I have an appointment with a therapist that my psychiatrist referred me to who's supposed to be good with trans issues, but the earliest I can see her is a month from now. I've also gotten clearance from both my dermatologist and psychiatrist to go on Accutane for my several acne-related problems, but I found out that I can't get laser hair removal while I'm on it, or for a couple months after I'm off of it. So, that means with 4-6 months of Accutane plus two months or so of recovery, it's going be around seven months or more before I can start laser, on top of laser taking over a year to reach its full effect. Since laser is something I want to get regardless of if I transition, I was kind of hoping I could spend a year considering transitioning, and then if I decide to go on HRT, I'd already have most of my facial removed before I start it. Now I'll have barely started a year from now.

I'm not in a rush, but I'm also starting to get antsy now that the smallest beginner steps are being put off for so long. How long did it take you all to go from deciding to transition to actually taking the earliest steps? And how many people did you come out to before taking those steps?
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DawnOday

I had very severe acne in high school and Clearasil is not gonna fix it. I didn't really start shaving until I was around 25. I really did not have much face hair. But when I started shaving the acne went away. And, It never came back. Wanna guess when that was. Bwahahaha
Dawn Oday

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First indication I was different- 1956 kindergarten
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DustKitten

I decided to transition about a month ago, and I'm making myself wait another three weeks before I make an appointment to see a therapist. The wait is excruciating, but I want some time to save money, transfer to a better-paying shift at work, find a second job, get some electrolysis done, work on my voice...

It's a lot of stuff to get done, and very stressful, but emotionally I've been feeling much better since I started taking steps towards transitioning. If I'm lucky I could maybe be on hormones in a couple of months?

Oh, and I've come out to 8 people so far, 3 of which already knew before I'd made my decision. I haven't told any of my local friends yet, but I've got 2 I might trust enough to tell soon.
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