Glad to hear from you as well,
Perry!
I'm sorry to hear that you've recently lost your Mom, she sounded like an amazing woman.
I'm glad to hear that I wasn't the only one that wanted to transition back in the '70s and earlier. It feels good to know that there were FTMs even then. Congrats on your current transitioning!
Sounds like your family for the most part accepts your transitioning very well. I'm not really out to many family members outside of my immediate family...that is, unless they pair attention to the trans-related news articles I post on facebook. My kid figured it out by paying attention, as did one of my brothers. The rest, I had to tell, or they simply don't know. Yet.
Its too bad about your brother. I have a sister that once I came out, simply refused to acknowledge my transitioning. I no longer speak to her, even at family functions. Its only been since my birthday in January, but she insulted me deeply, and I was forced to admit that I didn't want that kind of poison in my life right now. Maybe I'll forgive her one day...
if she ever apologizes. I'll never forget, that's for sure.
Its cool that your play-Aunt accepts you for who you are. Sounds like she and your childhood friend still love you, no matter what. That is so cool! Its always great to have allies in your corner. I too hope that the effects of T doesn't mean you lose anyone, but if they really love you, they shouldn't go anywhere, even if they may need to back off for a bit to do some thinking. After all, one thing that most cis people seem to forget is that "you're still the same basic person, its just your outside that changes."
Good luck with those you still need to come out to on facebook. I have family and friends I have yet come out to, and even though I'm rarely on fb, I still am tempted to post a pic of me with my beard just to start the conversation. I'm waiting for questions from family and friends that already know, but I also have videos in a trans playlist to help them understand...
should they need to hear it from someone other than myself.
Its okay about the "rambling," you had a lot to say, as did we all. After all, we have had literally
decades to hide our true selves, its about time we let people see us as we really are, right?
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So, what do you guys want to talk about now that we've introduced ourselves? I'm ready and eager for all sorts of conversations!
Ryuichi