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[J lewis]

Hello. So ive been questioning my gender for little over a year now and last month got my self a girlfriend whom turned out to be trans. This further help me along my transnationality. We both 16, opposite sex and trans. We wanna do HRT but i fear that i will lose the person i love or even myself, any thoughts?

[Faith]

Welcome to the rest of your life! (I mean that in a good way)

You won't lose yourself, you'd be on the road to finding yourself. Whether you take this road or another one is entirely up to you. You may lose friends, GF/BF/Otherwise. It's the nature of the risk. You might also find that GF/BF/Otherwise relationship all the stronger for it.

At 16 you have a lot of time to figure it all out.

Welcome to Susan's

Faith

[Alice V]

Hey!

Why should you lose yourself? You'll just give freedom to real you who hiding inside your body. You'll probably change in some way. You can lose people around you due that changes or just the fact you're trans, but if you really transgender, you'll find out that this need to unleash your nature will grow stronger and it can become painful.
See gender therapist. Talk about options. Think through it thoroughly. Make decision.

And you probably wanna make some introduction in  subforum with same name, that'll help people notice you

[steph2.0]

Hello. So ive been questioning my gender for little over a year now and last month got my self a girlfriend whom turned out to be trans. This further help me along my transnationality. We both 16, opposite sex and trans. We wanna do HRT but i fear that i will lose the person i love or even myself, any thoughts?

Hello J! Welcome to Susan's Place. You're in the right place - the best place - on the internet to help you find answers to your questions. I see that just the first few responses have offered great advice, and everyone here is happy to help.

Since you're new, allow me to introduce you to our rules and regulations. They're what keep Susan's a safe and helpful place for us all.

We're glad you're here!

Stephanie

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[Northern Star Girl]

Hello. So ive been questioning my gender for little over a year now and last month got my self a girlfriend whom turned out to be trans. This further help me along my transnationality. We both 16, opposite sex and trans. We wanna do HRT but i fear that i will lose the person i love or even myself, any thoughts?

@J lewis:
Dear J lewis
Thank you for your interesting posting.  Many of our members will now be aware of your arrival to the Forums and will be able to share with you and you with them regarding your questions and comments.

I see that you have already been Officially Welcomed to Susan's Place
by our lovely member @Steph2.0

Please allow me to also give your a warm Welcome to Susan's Place.
I am thinking that you may have lots more questions and concerns, this is the right place for you to be to find out what others have done that may have been in your circumstances.
Be aware that there are a lot of members here that can identify with your situation..
 
You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others  and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.  When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here on the Forums if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....

***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here. 
Please come in and continue to be involved at your own pace. 

In her Welcome Message  Stephanie  included Important LINKS that will tell you about Susan's Place.  Included there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.   
Please look closely at the LINKS in RED, answers are there to many questions that new members ask.   

Please don't be a stranger, we want to share postings and thoughts with you.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

[Northern Star Girl]

Hello. So ive been questioning my gender for little over a year now and last month got my self a girlfriend whom turned out to be trans. This further help me along my transnationality. We both 16, opposite sex and trans. We wanna do HRT but i fear that i will lose the person i love or even myself, any thoughts?

@J lewis:
OH and another thing J lewis: 
To allow even more members on the Forums know that you are new member of Susan's Place and the Forums please introduce yourself with some brief information
and your thoughts and concerns in the Introductions Forum  when you have some time.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place
Danielle