I find it wonderful that when I am in a social setting with some ladies who know I am mtf, that they always treat me and talk with me as myself, a woman, even when I am noticeably dressed as a male that day. I guess that may mean I am a woman that happens to be out in men's clothes, but I am still me!
I just love it when I am addressed and treated as a woman. I love to hear my "real" (female) name. I love it when a new necklace or something feminine related about me gets noticed. Any guy that is left in me seems to be nowhere to be found when I am in these situations. On these days, those good experiences make me crave to transition more quickly.
Plus, that all goes a long way to counteracting some of the ridicule that occasionally happens.
Hugs,
Chrissy