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Started by Liz K, September 07, 2025, 12:27:17 PM

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Liz K

Well, sort of.  My name is Liz.  I was here a few years ago as Emily Alt.  I wasn't very active then, and can't say this go-round will be any different.  But I hope it is!  We'll see.

So, a little bit about me.  Liz is my legal name.  I'm sixty-something.  I look and live much younger.  I reside in a small town in rural Norfolk, UK.  I moved here from San Diego about three months ago.  Yes, I left the US for what I hope are greener pastures in the UK.  It helps that I have a network of close friends here.  Norfolk is peaceful and quaint.  The locals have been very accepting.  I feel safe here.  The one big city, Norwich, is a short drive.  It has everything one might expect from a big city without being overwhelming.

I started my transition four years ago.  HRT and some cosmetic stuff so far.  I plan to have surgery to better align my body and mind.  I'm very OUT and living authentically.  I get gendered correctly most of the time, but don't worry about passing.  Our community benefits when they see a trans woman who's not a threat.

Why did I come back?  I need a better outlet.  I'm on a couple of other support sites.  One is massive and is a toxic dump of doomerism and trolls.  The other is a smaller support site that's quite restrictive.  I love that it's an oasis from toxicity.  But I can't freely speak my mind either.  From what I remember of Susan's, I think it will fill that gap.

So that's about it for now.  Looking forward to getting to know you.  Would love to meet any local UK girls that are out there.

Hugs,
Liz


Maid Marion

Hi Liz,

Welcome back!  The locals are very accepting where I live.  I have a huge rose garden in my front yard for people who take walks.

Marion

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Dear Liz:

Hello and WELCOME BACK to Susan's Place and the Forum. 
I certainly do remember your previous presence here as your member name Emily Alt

I am so very glad that you found us and made the decision to register again as a member here.


You definitely came to the right place to share with our like-minded members regarding your transition journey.

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Lori Dee

Welcome back, Liz K!

I think you remembered correctly about Susan's being the right place. Yes, we have rules, but that is for everyone's benefit, as you may understand. Feel free to comment and share your experiences here. We all learn from each other.

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Sarah B

Hi Liz

My name is Sarah and I would also like to formally, Welcome you Back to Susan's Place!

I see that other members of Susan's have also welcomed you as well.

Norfolk sounds lovely.  Quiet lanes, gentle skies and friendly faces.  Norwich close by with culture, shops and coffee.  It is easy to see why you feel safe.  However I have never been to Norfolk, so how would I know? You will have to describe it a bit more.  Yes, I live in Australia but originally hail from England.

A fresh start after San Diego is a big step.  I am glad you have a solid circle of friends.  I know what it is like moving from one country to another.  However I was only ten at the time and it was one of the best moves my parents ever made.  That kind of support makes all the difference.

Your openness shines through.  Living as yourself helps others more than you might ever know.  Grace, kindness and patience go a long way.

I hope Susan's gives you the outlet you want.  Share as little or as much as you like.  Ask questions, vent and celebrate your wins.

I am happy you are here Liz.  I look forward to hearing more about life in your village, your favourite spots and your small joys.

Once you feel comfortable here, it would be appreciated if you add a little bit more about yourself in the other forums and threads.  I would appreciate it very much as, I'm always interested in learning something new about new members.

In addition members of Susan's will more than likely will discuss problems or issues that are similar to yours as most have experienced these issues as well.

Please keep in mind when posting that this is an ALL AGES PUBLIC Forum and the internet never forgets.  Do not post anything that you do not want to be made public.

Take care and all the best for the future.

Once again, Welcome to Susan's Place!

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ChrissyRyan

Welcome back Liz!

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

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Liz,

Please come back often!

Chrissy
Always stay cheerful, be polite, kind, and understanding. Accepting yourself as the woman you are is very liberating.  Never underestimate the appreciation and respect of authenticity.  Help connect a person to someone that may be able to help that person.  Be brave, be strong.  A TRUE friend is a treasure.  Relationships are very important, people are important, and the sooner we all realize that the better off the world will be.  Try a little kindness.  Be generous with your time, energy, wisdom, and resources.   Inconvenience yourself to help someone.   I am a brown eyed, brown haired woman. 

Liz K

Quote from: Sarah B on September 08, 2025, 07:10:07 PMHi Liz

My name is Sarah and I would also like to formally, Welcome you Back to Susan's Place!

I see that other members of Susan's have also welcomed you as well.

Norfolk sounds lovely.  Quiet lanes, gentle skies and friendly faces.  Norwich close by with culture, shops and coffee.  It is easy to see why you feel safe.  However I have never been to Norfolk, so how would I know? You will have to describe it a bit more.  Yes, I live in Australia but originally hail from England.


Yes, Norfolk.  My new home.  I love it here.  It's the greenest place I've ever lived and the most rural.

Geographically, Norfolk is located in the East of England.  It has hundreds of miles of unspoiled coastline on the North Sea.  There are dunes and deserted beaches all along the coast.  Much of the land along the coast is lowlands prone to flooding from North Sea storms.  Windmills dot the lowlands much like in the Netherlands.  The Low Countries of mainland Europe are about 150 miles across the North Sea.

Further inland, the land is flat and slightly higher elevation.  Agriculture rules here.  The countryside is dotted with hundreds of small towns and villages.  They are connected with an intricate web of roads and narrow lanes.  It's common to see large farm vehicles hauling their harvest into town, and they do disrupt traffic.

Every town and village in the UK has at least one pub.  Norfolk is no exception.  They serve as meeting places for the locals in addition to serving food and drinks.  I've been to dozens of them - some in the most remote and conservative parts of Norfolk.  Places where a trans person might expect some adversity.  That hasn't happened.  To the contrary, the locals have been warm and welcoming.

Weather-wise, Norfolk is one of the warmer and drier parts of the UK.  Sunshine is fairly abundant from mid-May through mid-October.  Temperature in the 20s Celsius are common during the warmer months.  Occasionally, a heat wave will push temps into the 30s.  During the colder months, the weather is unsettled.  It rains often and most days are cloudy or overcast.  Temps usually hover in the single digits and occasionally go below freezing.  Snow is rare because of climate change.

I live about 15 miles from Norwich, which is the cultural, gastronomical and logistical hub of Norfolk.  Around 250k residents live in the area.  It has everything I might need or want.  There are two prominent universities here, which brings a lot of diversity and liberalism to the city.  There is a large LGBTQ community.  I see other trans folks every time I go to Norwich - which is several times a week.  

The older parts of Norwich have a distinct European feel.  Much of the architecture is from the late Medieval and Renaissance periods.  Interspersed are contemporary buildings that harmoniously blend with the old.  In the city center, many of the streets are designated pedestrian and bicycle only, with hundreds of small shops and retail arcades.

Further out from the city center, newer residential areas abound.  Some areas even look a bit like a typical North American suburb.

To say Norfolk is a radical departure from San Diego would be about right.

Sephirah

I vaguely remember your old name. Welcome back, honey. <3

Norfolk is kind of famous for narrowboats and the Broads, lol. At least to everyone else in the country haha. ;D
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