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Started by marriedtgdad, April 29, 2008, 05:28:52 PM

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tekla

I'm not even sure what your trying to say HR.  I lived in rural Iowa for a long time, and yes women for the most part dress to work, but they do have their Sunday going to meeting clothes, and stuff they could wear to a wedding too.  Most of the girls I know in SF have fancy stuff, but they also have fleece for the coast, and clothing much like the Iowa girl would wear on her farm to go camping in.

And though it often gets lost in the everybody's equal nonsense - ALL THE WOMEN in N.Dakota, Montana, S.Dakota and Wyoming are not even close to half the women in the Greater NYC or Metro LA area.  Less that 20% I bet.  So its not like there is any force of numbers on their side. We often tend to forget that one group represents millions and millions more persons than the other.

And, as a historian, I can assure you all this goes way, way, way back - long before advertising was around.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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heatherrose




Thank-you for letting me know I'm not making myself understood (seriously).
What I'm trying to say is, with the various backgrounds represented here, what
makes some feel they have the right to look down their noses at anyone
in the way they chose to present themselves. I guess, just as you said there
is a cross section of society anywhere you may find yourself. I shouldn't find
it surprising to find self righteous ???holes even here.

If someone asks for an opinion about their appearance or for some help in
achieving a certain look,fine but don't sideways attack someone because
they don't present the way that you* feel they should.






*used in general
"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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tekla

I live in what easily may well be the anti-fashion capitol of the world. I see punks with the Black and Decker facial jewelry look, people dressed up in brighter colors than a traffic cone, old people dressing too young, young people (girls in particular) dressing way, way too old, tourists who don't know better in shorts and t-shirts freezing their ass off waiting for the cable car to take them down to Fisherman's Wharf, where its going to be even colder - and just about everything in between.

Most of the time it does not matter, its all just part of the passing parade, and if they are doing it to amuse me, well, they are doing a damn good job.  But there is, at some points, time where one ought to think about what's appropriate, or, at least understand the ramifications of not doing so.

Like when we were out on Warp Tour and in Kansas and Ohio, and LaborTemps or some such company sent us out guys to load the trucks and they were wearing sandals.  (really, I'm not kidding) - and it's like "OK, you people go stand over there and smoke cigarettes and play with your water bottles cause you sure as hell are not going to load band equipment on a 53 foot trailer dressed like that."

Or, perhaps my favorite, I was at the super trendy club here in SF called Ten15, and it has a dress code.  And when the girl was loudly complaining when she was not let in "because this is just who I am" the doorman looked at her and said, "Well, we don't let in people dressed like that, and that's just who we are."

A friend of mine I think said it best when he told me that "all of life is a costume party, you just have to know who is writing the invitation."
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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heatherrose




I agree, there is a time and a place for everything. I assure you if I were to
show up at Ten15, I would be served but if you show up to muck out the stables,
in heels and a mini skirt, in an attempt to prove your girly, girlyness,
I'm gonna laugh my butt off.

No one has attacked me, but I see this attitude in some of the posts, that
insinuate the idea that if you don't, this or that, then your not ?? enough.
People may look at my avitar and think what a "butch". What you can't see is
that I am wearing a, kick ass, long denim skirt and brown suede high heel
boots. I hadn't intended to have my picture taken that day. I was out
shopping at "Wally World" and one thing led to another.





Post Merge: July 10, 2009, 11:39:25 AM




...and if you* so decide that, in all your girly, girlyness, you would NEVER be
caught dead mucking out a stable, that is just fine but don't look down your
nose at me because I wouldn't have a problem with it, I'm not in the least bit
ashamed of the fact that I am a "Tomboy".





*used generaly
"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Janet_Girl

I can muck out a stable and still clean up good for a night of clubbing.  And I know the top you were wearing.  You just plain smoking hawt.  Ok I am a little prejudges.

When one looks down their noses, it is because they are afraid to look in the mirror.

IMHO,
Janet
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heatherrose




Quote from: Janet Lynn on July 10, 2009, 01:04:03 PMWhen one looks down their nose, it is because they are afraid to look in the mirror.

BINGO



"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Annwyn

Quote from: heatherrose on July 10, 2009, 12:09:41 PM

What you can't see is
that I am wearing a, kick ass, long denim skirt and brown suede high heel
boots.
Because guys totally rip their attention away from the chest and face to look at them stylin cowgirl skirts and overly fancy heels that don't match the denim:-p

It takes everyone a while to figure out how to dress, in fact it takes most teenagers a good 10 years to make up their mind: the lucky ones.
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heatherrose



Go back to your on line business, I couldn't care less what you think.




"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Annwyn

Quote from: heatherrose on July 10, 2009, 01:37:32 PM


Go back to your on line business, I couldn't care less what you think.





Oh noez.  I are wounded to the core!

Have fun chillin with those denims:-p
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heatherrose




That is difficult to believe, someone as shallow as you, doesn't have a core.





"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Suzy

I guess I am still not sure what the big deal is here.  I still enjoy working on my truck.  I have modded the crap out of it.  Few mechanics have ever touched it.  And I love to see the heads turn when people see it.  It sounds awesome too.  A real testosterone producing machine.  Although I am not crazy about getting grease under my fingernails, at the risk of sounding vain, I think I clean up pretty good.  Does it make me feel like less of a girl?  You gotta be kidding!

Kristi
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Annwyn

Kk, Ms Denim.  Everyone is entitled to their beliefs, but if you're wanting to continue your bickering at me then do it over PM so the rest of the forum isn't exposed to our mature, diplomatic compliments towards one another.  Oh yeah and check out grammar school again, either that or figure out how double negatives work in a sentence :laugh:

Post Merge: July 10, 2009, 12:48:44 PM

Quote from: Kristi on July 10, 2009, 01:47:10 PM
I guess I am still not sure what the big deal is here.  I still enjoy working on my truck.  I have modded the crap out of it.  Few mechanics have ever touched it.  And I love to see the heads turn when people see it.  It sounds awesome too.  A real testosterone producing machine.  Although I am not crazy about getting grease under my fingernails, at the risk of sounding vain, I think I clean up pretty good.  Does it make me feel like less of a girl?  You gotta be kidding!

Kristi

Motorcycles>>>trucks.
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Nero

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