I went out today in my baggy shorts, skate shoes, tee shirt, new buzz cut, and went into a restaurant to order takeout (cuz I forgot my cell phone to call ahead, doh!)
And she asked for my name and I said Jay. A first!!
First time other than therapy and other transfolk. And I didn't care if they thought it was Jaye, but she wrote Jay on the sheet.

Oh, and I'm gray now. My stylist buzzed off most of what remained of my hair color. Add in my new glasses (one week!) and I should look a bit more masculine.
Jay