Hi

[Haru]

Hello and welcome to the site, I'm also a newbie here, and although I'm only a CD so far, I've also been abandoned by my family and almost all of my friends. Its not easy, and I'm sure transitioning is far harder than anything I've gone through. Keep your heart up, its hard hiding things, but everybody has there secrets and if a man who has a sexual attraction to pudding doesn't have to tell everyone he meets about it, then you damn well don't have to either.

I know its never really that easy, and I think the guilt comes from thinking that you need to tell them about it because its a different type of secret than other peoples secrets. But I don't think thats true, It's hard to shake off the inner doubt of yourself being different from other people, but its a wall that has to be climbed by every person that walks down this road.

you are different, but no more than any other person in the world. And I hope you can find friends and familly who will love you for those differences rather than shun you, as I'm sure we've all experienced before.   

(oops I think I went on a rant again, sorry for chewing your ear off hun)

[Stealthgrrl]

Shhh, hush now about the Pudding Man, I heard he's found himself a sweet little no-bake gf. 

Thank you for the welcome.

Stealth

[greeneyedgirl]

Oh Haru, now you've gone and done it...  You made me think of that one horrible scene from American Pie that I thought was so gross...  Pudding, Pie, whatever, just ewww...

Sam

[Haru]

Oh Haru, now you've gone and done it...  You made me think of that one horrible scene from American Pie that I thought was so gross...  Pudding, Pie, whatever, just ewww...

Sam

hehehe, sorry about that.  >;}   <(this is my mischievous face)

[greeneyedgirl]

hehehe, sorry about that.  >;}   <(this is my mischievous face)

One time at band camp...


...there was this boy who had a little problem with pie...


...he had a mischievous face too!

My family knows, apparently just from the look on my face, when I'm going to launch into a one time at band camp sorry before I even say a word.  I'm told my face dances, and is expressive and very female.  Which of course had my TS friends early on wanting to know where I went to school...  I was clueless...  Apparently there are girl schools (or should be) to learn how to walk, talk, act and move like a girl, but they don't teach facial expressions...  Color me clueless.

I guess my point (yeah, she actually has one) is it's good to have some facial expressions in terms of transition and such...  So mischievous, is as good a place as any to start, yes?

Sam

[Haru]

One time at band camp...


...there was this boy who had a little problem with pie...


...he had a mischievous face too!

My family knows, apparently just from the look on my face, when I'm going to launch into a one time at band camp sorry before I even say a word.  I'm told my face dances, and is expressive and very female.  Which of course had my TS friends early on wanting to know where I went to school...  I was clueless...  Apparently there are girl schools (or should be) to learn how to walk, talk, act and move like a girl, but they don't teach facial expressions...  Color me clueless.

I guess my point (yeah, she actually has one) is it's good to have some facial expressions in terms of transition and such...  So mischievous, is as good a place as any to start, yes?

Sam

I actually specialize in drawing faces, and facial expressions are ineed complex and interesting things. Simply by moving a single muscle only a few millimeters we can give off an entirely different feeling. And the meaning of your words and actions can be taken in very different ways depending on your facial expression, and vocal tone.

I actually practice my expressions in a mirror to get them right. Although controlling them mid conversation is allot harder than it first seems to be.