I just introduced myself on the intro forum, so I'm not going to do it again! Except for a couple of details. I am pre-everything (not sure how far I plan to go), and I'm trying to find a therapist. I am a boy. And I am gay.
I'm looking to connect with other guys like me. I'm currently in a very long-term relationship--we are even legally married (it was pretty effing annoying to have to fill out the "bride" part of the application, but I survived). My partner is a bio male, and he is straight with regard to men but supportive of my weirdness. He has some gender oddness of his own--he's a damn good lesbian domme in online role playing games--but he has no real gender identity disorder. So when I say he's straight, I don't think that's quite an accurate label. Straight male, part-time lesbian?
Anyway, I would like to hear from other gay guys in any stage of transition (or pre-transition) who have male lovers, particularly if you "discovered" yourself or came out after entering into the relationship. As I said, I've been with my partner for a long time, but I do worry about how our relationship--particularly our sexual relationship--will change now that I'm starting to really embrace my true identity. So I'd love to hear from other guys in similar situations. Anything to just touch base, really. As I said in my intro, I was very confused all my life with being both TG and gay. Now that I'm really accepting what and who I am, I want nothing more than to talk to other folks like me.
