Does any gay FTMs here get a "Ships passing in the night" feeling with bioguys?

[rottingteeth]

lol and i don't want a bio dude seeing any part of me but with another transguy well we all have to deal with basically the same ->-bleeped-<- so i dont feel as self conscious and icky

hmm. I never really thought of that. yeah, if I could find a fellow ftm to date, that would be awesome, now that I think about it...

I fell in love with a gay boy. absolutely, completely, madly in love. he was exactly my type. I told him how I felt, and he basically said "you don't look right, I can't date you." not those exact words, he tried to let me down easy, but that was basically the message. you know, you look like a girl, I'm attracted to men...

I was crushed, devistated, but I still feel like maybe there is hope, because I don't feel like I expressed adequately just how deeply I care about him, and just what a transsexual is.

it is terribly shallow to reject a transsexual, because they don't look like the sex you are attracted to. terribly shallow.

[Nero]

hmm. I never really thought of that. yeah, if I could find a fellow ftm to date, that would be awesome, now that I think about it...

I fell in love with a gay boy. absolutely, completely, madly in love. he was exactly my type. I told him how I felt, and he basically said "you don't look right, I can't date you." not those exact words, he tried to let me down easy, but that was basically the message. you know, you look like a girl, I'm attracted to men...

I was crushed, devistated, but I still feel like maybe there is hope, because I don't feel like I expressed adequately just how deeply I care about him, and just what a transsexual is.

it is terribly shallow to reject a transsexual, because they don't look like the sex you are attracted to. terribly shallow.

well, I don't know. are you on T? do you pass? because if you don't pass and he's not attracted to female looks, it makes sense no matter how unfair it is for us.

[GnomeKid]

I more feel that way with girls.  Both ways actually, with the straight girls I feel like "damn I know I could TOTALLY win you over if I was actually a dude." and with lesbians I feel like "damn I wish I could feel comfortable enough with myself/body to go after you, and I wish I wasn't this way but if I dated you I know you'd be sad I have no boobs and you'd view my nether-regions as that of a female which would bug me too much"

I don't dig doods, but I know I'd feel the same way about them if I did, either they'd be gay and I'd feel as though I'm not man enough or they'd be straight and I'd feel like I was back at square one. 

[Jaimey]

I more feel that way with girls.  Both ways actually, with the straight girls I feel like "damn I know I could TOTALLY win you over if I was actually a dude." and with lesbians I feel like "damn I wish I could feel comfortable enough with myself/body to go after you, and I wish I wasn't this way but if I dated you I know you'd be sad I have no boobs and you'd view my nether-regions as that of a female which would bug me too much"

I don't dig doods, but I know I'd feel the same way about them if I did, either they'd be gay and I'd feel as though I'm not man enough or they'd be straight and I'd feel like I was back at square one.

Uh, yeah.  Well put.  I know exactly how you feel.

[Mister]

The only ships passing in the night feeling I get with men is with the majority of transmen.