Femme ftms

[emoboi]

dont know if a topic like this was posted, if so o well
i myself am very femme i like typical *girl things*
anyone else femme?

[Alyx.]

I'm typically the opposite.

[Miniar]

I'm not the most masculine bloke out there. I have little feminine traits and, I admit it, I'm a twink..
but I don't consider myself "femme" in any way either.

[hayden.]

i never understood that, honestly.
no, i'm a man; i enjoy masculine things?
i believe everyone has both masculine and feminine traits, but i don't consider myself femme. repulsed at the thought, actually.



"i myself am very femme i like typical *girl things*"

and you call yourself a FTM?
makes no sense to me, but alright.

[emoboi]

um, i dont need to be some overtly macho guy to valid that i am a guy
masculine does not neccesarilly equal man
im repulsed by the thought of manly, super macho guys

[Mr. Fox]

Yes, one can be femme and male; just look my avatar photo!  If you thought that was a woman, you're wrong.  It's Pete Burns.
I myself have long hair and prefer women's clothing to men's.  However, as I would prefer to be referred to with male pronouns and have a male body, I consider myself male.

[Nero]

Well, I'm not femme. But I like pretty things. I highlight my hair and wear mascara. Not sure if this is the result of my being raised female or not. (course not everyone raised female likes feminine things).
I was encouraged to like and do certain things I would've been steered away from had I been raised male.
Post Merge: April 11, 2009, 01:05:38 PM

i never understood that, honestly.
no, i'm a man; i enjoy masculine things?
i believe everyone has both masculine and feminine traits, but i don't consider myself femme. repulsed at the thought, actually.



"i myself am very femme i like typical *girl things*"

and you call yourself a FTM?
makes no sense to me, but alright.

Hey let's not judge here. To each his own.

[placeholdername]

Well, I'm not femme. But I like pretty things. I highlight my hair and wear mascara. Not sure if this is the result of my being raised female or not. (course not everyone raised female likes feminine things).
I was encouraged to like and do certain things I would've been steered away from had I been raised male.
Post Merge: April 11, 2009, 01:05:38 PM
Hey let's not judge here. To each his own.

Same thing... who knows if I would like combat video games as much if I was raised as a girl

[kestin]

I'm more comfortable about being femme now that I'm transitioning. As in, I feel right being a femme guy but not at all being a femme girl. Some of the most feminine people I know are men so, go figure, lol. To me, so much about femme and masculine behaviour I view as individual qualities without gendered attachment.

ETA: I'm also a member of the livejournal group femme_ftm

[icontact]

I'm just femme in the way I act. I am the stereotypical gay man, except I like girls too.

[kestin]

lol, exactly "stereotypical gay man" is what I'm usually read as nowadays... cept, I can't for the life of me do that effeminate lisp thingee -_- heh

[emoboi]

feminine gay/bi guys are the hottest   

[tekla]

Do what you like, what makes you happy.  Don't worry about what others say or do.  They have their right to do as they will too.  I think that most of what people label 'fem' or 'macho' is just so much closed minded BS anyway.  Simple minds are easy to amuse I guess.

[Jaimey]

I actually think I got a little more fem once I accepted that I wasn't female.  And personally, I like femme guys way more than the super masculine.   

Do what you like, what makes you happy.  Don't worry about what others say or do.  They have their right to do as they will too.

Amen to that.

[Jay]

"i myself am very femme i like typical *girl things*"

and you call yourself a FTM?
makes no sense to me, but alright.

um, i dont need to be some overtly macho guy to valid that i am a guy
masculine does not neccesarilly equal man

He shoots he scores!! Exactly right Emoboi

I have female traits about just like most men do whether they choose to show them or not is another matter, I would call my self a Metrosexual kinda guy, like to take good care of myself, smell nice, hair nice, nice clothes, clean shaven. Sorta guy.

Jay

[Miniar]

Just because I like to keep my hair and nails neat and clean doesn't make me less of a man.

[Linus]

I know a few "femme" or "feminine" FTMs and honestly, it doesn't make them any less the great men they are.

[Yochanan]

I prefer the term "effeminate"...

--Mr. Effeminate x]

[Sophie90]

^ Oh I agree on the effeminate term.


I like to dress up in women's clothes at the weekend.

[icontact]

lol, exactly "stereotypical gay man" is what I'm usually read as nowadays... cept, I can't for the life of me do that effeminate lisp thingee -_- heh

Haha, I can do it, but I don't understand why anyone would ever want to sound like that...