I'd thought that transvestism and cross-dressing were different things. Unless I misunderstand this article, it seems that the author is making them equal to one another.
I never thought that marriage and fatherhood would make me more masculine, or that it would "cure" me. But then, I didn't really think I was a cross-dresser when I got marrired, 20+ years ago.
My wife in no way reacted with "revulsion and rejection," and has instead been quite supportive. Maybe I've just been lucky.
I don't think I need to seek counselling to understand why I cross-dress. I cross-dress because it just seems to be the natural thing for me to do.