all i use is womens razors, for everything, in my experience you just have to find the one or ones that work for your skin type. i have about 4 different ones i use, for an extremely close shave, then use moisturizer for razor burn, but it's usually not too bad. i usually end up with a much smoother face than my ex, i don't have a lot of hair to begin with, but if i know it's there it bothers me, even though i've seen plenty of bio-women with more facial hair than i've ever had.
also, there is this stuff called Kalo that you can buy on ebay. it is supposed to be the best hair growth inhibitor if used correctly. they have cream, spray, among a number of other products for hair removal, and it's supposed to be permanent. when i get money, i will buy it and try it for myself, right now i get stuff from avon, but it only slows it down for a couple of days and you have to put it on really thick.