Stupid troll (on another forum)

Walter · August 28, 2009, 05:06:24 AM

I came to rant about this here...since that scum troll can't see it here

I'm on this other forum. I love this forum...A lot of the people there like me (which is surprising). That forum used to be so fun to go to but then a few months ago this member shows up. I never paid any attention to him until he downright insulted me in a topic I made about my mother being in the hospital. At the time, I had to help my dad and my brother by myself cope through all this. We all had to help each other since it was such a tragedy. I made a topic about it on this forum and the people were so nice there they posted all of their sympathies and asked me to keep them updated on my mom's progress. I got PM's from a few members who offered to help me out if I needed someone to talk to. They're such wonderful people. Then this piece of s*** shows up. He insults me. Me, and including the members who posted in that topic told him to GTFO if he can't say anything nice. He proceeded to drag it along instead of listening to us and actually leave. I fought and argued with him because he was insulting me in a time of crisis. I felt I had to defend myself. Me and him both wound up getting a warning on our accounts because we broke a certain rule of the forum. My warning's about to expire next month sometime. Including his warning...I want this piece of scum banned for good. If he gets three warnings then he's banned. He already has two but one of them is going to expire next month. God....I don't understand why they don't ban him. He continues to downright insult people on the forum. It's sickening. Sorry if this is long...but I wanted to get this out. Lately I haven't even been wanting to go to the forum anymore. Not all because of him, but things are changing on the site and whatnot. If he ever left, I know I could go there happily and post happily. But eventually probably another troll would come and take his place. And the funny thing is, only a couple people on the forum agrees with me that he's a troll. Everyone else seems to think he's just rude and entertaining to watch spew of bull****. I can't get entertainment out of him. He insults everyone and has hurt people's feeling before. He never hurt me, but he sure angered me.

Sorry...this was a long rant about a troll that I can't do anything about. It just crawls under my skin that the admins there won't ban him when he's just useless

Maybe I haven't looked around on Susans enough, but it seems this place doesn't have a lot of rude people. I guess if I have to stop going to the other forum I guess I can come here more often..

~James

Cindy · August 28, 2009, 05:29:24 AM

Hi James

Trolls are just that. There are people in life who just do not have one. They just try and seek attention because they have no skills in anything. These are the people who scratch windows, these are the people who push aside the disabled, these are the people who demand help when they hurt but have never tried. They are pityful. My advice is to not engage them; they are not interested in an argument, they just wish to be rude. BTW, as you know many on Susan's site like to argue and debate, that's healthy! sometimes it can get a bit rough, but I've always been gentle on newbies and am happy to defend and debate with the (older) girls and boys who want to debate. These sort of boards are still in their infancy. We have to generate a whole new set of "manners" to cope with it. For example, many of the comments made in discussion would have prompted a needed a duel to death in the 19th century. Sueing in the 20th, and a rasberry now.

We change but we society still needs manners.

My advice?

Don't deal with people who have bad manners. I would not want them as a friend so why talk to them?

Luv

Cindy

heatherrose · August 28, 2009, 05:50:09 AM

Mmmmm....Raspberrys (covered with dark chocolate?)

As has been said before on this site, some idiots believe they exist
only to instigate hate and discontent. *Don't let the moron rent space in
your head, Ignore the lower brute beast, Sweety. You are better than that.
As far as the "other site" goes, if you are dissatisfied with their
reaction to this dindle berry, vote with your feet.

*^{as quoted from the intelligent and beautiful Janet.}

Walter · August 28, 2009, 05:59:19 AM

Thankie for the posts ^__^

Yeah trolls pretty much get their jollies from upsetting people. I've put this guy on my ignore list and I ignore him. I just don't like to see other people (especially newbies) be a victim to him and get a bad impression of the site. If it wasn't for a-holes like him, the site would be wonderful. Whenever I see someone start to become a victim (I see this happen in the chat room) I PM the new person and warn them of how much of a troll he is. They usually thank me lol

V M · August 28, 2009, 06:08:02 AM

Sorry to hear about your mom. What happened? Is she okay?

Unfortunatelly, trolls tend to show up at the worst times and usually attack when you are most vulnerable. Don't let 'em get to you. We all have are various moods, but some folks are too self absorbed and insecure to be nice to anyone else.

I find I like Susan's better than most other sites I've visited. Sometimes I get a bit put off here and there. But over all, I like most of the folks here

Walter · August 28, 2009, 06:11:41 AM

She had a heart attack last March. She's fine now. Me, my brother and dad are taking care of her now. She can still do stuff by herself and everything, but we just like to do some of the chores and stuff for her more often than before

V M · August 28, 2009, 06:17:36 AM

Glad to hear that she's doing better

myles · August 28, 2009, 11:15:25 AM

Sorry about the trool- Love the don't let them rent space in your rhead comment, never thought of it that way.
Glad to hear your mom is doing better!
Myles

Walter · August 29, 2009, 02:05:52 AM

I had to deal with him in the chat room today. He's such a worthless piece of human life I swear. I'm just glad I'm not physically around him, I would not hold back to beat the hell out of him

Gah...It's just so hard to ignore him. I really need to quit that forum for a while

heatherrose · August 30, 2009, 12:17:58 AM

Quote from: James O.O on August 29, 2009, 02:05:52 AMHe's such a worthless piece of human life I swear.

He's 12 if not actually, then mentally.
He's a little boy acting badly and you are wasting your energy on anger
while he snickers at you from behind the safety of his keyboard

Quote from: James O.O on August 29, 2009, 02:05:52 AMI really need to quit that forum for a while

noeleena · August 30, 2009, 01:06:34 AM

Hi...James
Sorry to hear about your mum . i do hope she is well on the way of getting better . not some thing you can . just carry on with & not need help .
Just a pity we have some people who hide behind a made up name then sling the drit . It seems to me they have major probs . & dont grow up . face to face it would be a different story. I wonder if they live in the real world . after you have. i see a change that we need to see . you just walk on by . & dont enter in to any talking or debate . then you dont have to take on thier down putting of people . dont give them any creadence. they soon go away .
...noeleena...

cindybc · August 30, 2009, 01:33:41 AM

Hmmmm, that troll sounds like someone that use to be here. I could have swore that person was solely dedicated to try to get my goat, so to speak. Failed, because when I responded I did so in a civilized way. How can someone continue being aggressive towards someone who doesn't react or respond in kind? I don't believe I have any enemies here on this board or any other board I am a member of, nor out there in real life.

Love
Cindy

heatherrose · August 30, 2009, 01:59:30 AM

Quote from: cindybc on August 30, 2009, 01:33:41 AMI don't believe I have any enemies here on this board...

...but I've been keeping an eye on you and your dangerous mind.
While you spread love and contentment all over the place.
You just better watch your step "Kanuck Princess".

Walter · August 30, 2009, 02:06:39 AM

Quote from: cindybc on August 30, 2009, 01:33:41 AM
Hmmmm, that troll sounds like someone that use to be here. I could have swore that person was solely dedicated to try to get my goat, so to speak. Failed, because when I responded I did so in a civilized way. How can someone continue being aggressive towards someone who doesn't react or respond in kind? I don't believe I have any enemies here on this board or any other board I am a member of, nor out there in real life.

Love
Cynthia

Was this troll's name Roy-Nilsson?

thestory · August 30, 2009, 02:46:52 AM

Its funny how people on the web have no inhibition. They have states between them and the people they talk to. Sometimes countries. They don't have a face to deal with personally so they feel comfortable speaking rudely even if they may be one of the politest people in person.
That just means they are a coward.
And I don't care if I never meet the people I speak to online. I don't make it a point to be a jackass.

Don't worry they will get theirs. Karma comes around.

By the way... dark chocolate and raspberries are awesome...

cindybc · August 30, 2009, 02:48:24 AM

Hi James, nope, afraid it's not the same troll. Might be a few lost soles in this group but I think most here only bite ankles.

Hi Heatherrose, you are quite welcome to watch all you want for as often as I come here anymore it will be like watching paint dry.

I do my best to spread love and share my experiences for what it's worth, or not worth. If it resonates, keep it. if not, leave it.

Love
Cindy

Walter · August 30, 2009, 03:10:26 AM

Oh I so hope Karma will gets this dude. I will praise God the day he gets what's coming to him. Not to be a jackass myself, but this guy deserves it for what he says

heatherrose · August 30, 2009, 03:11:44 AM

Quote from: Kamren on August 30, 2009, 02:46:52 AMBy the way... dark chocolate and raspberries are awesome...

cindybc · August 30, 2009, 03:12:03 AM

Politest, understanding, supportive, and caring, sometimes even love, but you are quite right about the Internet, it doesn't appear that true intentions come through as true they were meant to on the other person's monitor, no mater whether it be across the street or in Timbuktu.

I will not wast my time with those who live to nit pick, argue, flame, or come in with a negative attitudes. It would be a waste of my time and theirs. But I have at times been on the Internet for several hours with someone who was truly in need of support.

After being a social worker for 20 years I have found that you can't please everyone, I was lucky if I got one out of 10 and that would be a good weeks work.

Love
Cindy

FairyGirl · August 30, 2009, 03:32:14 AM

it's very difficult, but trolls survive like any other brute beast- by being fed. It probably annoys them more to be ignored than anything you can say, because to a troll negative attention is still attention and they thrive on it. If everyone would ignore this jackass he would soon pick up his troll toys and move on to where he can be fed.

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