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This UPSETS me so much!!!

Started by Inphyy, August 31, 2009, 12:15:53 AM

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Inphyy

I was watching the news when a report about the LGBTQI community came up! At first I thought it was going to be positive...But it ended up being feed-back from different straight people and what they thought and believe about the LGBTQI community.

A few people said, "That they were cool with it"...One man ended up saying that he was a FtM! But this one person...A Mexican man---Got on my nerves...He said...

"I find any person who is not straight a freak! Many of those people commit suicide anyways! So I don't have to worry about them--But for me I believe White people end up being the only ones like that."

The freak part made me go crazy...The fact he was taunting the whole community made it worse. But the fact that he stereotyped that only and all LGBTQI people are White gets on my nerves and upsets me.

I have friends who are Black, Mexican and Asian who are also in the LGBTQI community! So they are sooo misinformed and it's sad that people don't do their full research or stereotype!!!
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Lutin

I agree, it's horrible and depressing. I can only look at LGBTIQ news sites if I'm not angsty or sad about anything, half the time it's all so depressing and angering. Yes, it is important to know what goes on, and some of the news and community feedback is happy and uplifting, but there always seems to be that negative element, too, unfortunately. :-\
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metal angel

what's the "Q" stand for now?

meh, being a freak beats being boring, at least we don't live in 1930's germany or current-day iran.
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LordKAT

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metal angel

i thought Queer was an "all of the above"... man, how long is this acronym going to get...
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Just Kate

I wasn't aware of this so maybe someone can clarify, but when did the intersexed community at large start associating themselves with gays and lesbians?
Ill no longer be defined by my condition. From now on, I'm just, Kate.

http://autumnrain80.blogspot.com
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metal angel

I somehow don't think it was the idea of the intersex people... at least not the majority of them. But there is a sub-set of the intersex community who identify with it as androgynous rather than their assigned gender and thus associate with TG community. I think that rebel subset is on the right page, i like the human race to have a bit of varitey, too much conformity.
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heatherrose




It is good that we are reminded that there are people out there who are less
than accepting of the LGBQ___IT community, it keeps it fresh in our minds not
to become complacent and start believing our own propaganda that everything
is fine in happyland. While there are great strides that have been made
toward acceptance and equality, there are still and probably always
will be people out here who hate us and there are those
who will do more than just voice their disdain.


"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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perfectisolation

I'm curious Sheva, what did the ftm say??
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Inphyy

Quote from: northy on August 31, 2009, 09:56:09 AM
I'm curious Sheva, what did the ftm say??

They wouldn't let the FtM say anything, they said they wanted feed-back from biological males and females. If they let "her" talk then she would only talk about the good. They want pure opinions.

Q stands for Queer/Questioning!
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metal angel

weird... they want opinions exclusively from the ill-informed...

that has alwayse seemed to be the point of those vox-pops but i never thought they'd admit it so bluntly
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tekla

they want opinions exclusively from the ill-informed

And here I thought we had the Republican Party, Faux Noise, and the Southern Baptists for that action.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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heatherrose



Quote from: Sheva on August 31, 2009, 06:34:47 PMIf they let "her" talk then she would only talk about the good.


Take it from the "Queen of Presumed Offense", it may be considered
offensive to refer to a FTM brother as "she" and "her". Similar to
someone referring to you as "he" or "him". TIFWIW*



*Take It For What It's Worth
"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Inphyy

Quote from: heatherrose on August 31, 2009, 07:10:08 PM



Take it from the "Queen of Presumed Offense", it may be considered
offensive to refer to a FTM brother as "she" and "her". Similar to
someone referring to you as "he" or "her". TIFWIW*



*Take It For What It's Worth

Note how I quoted "her", I'm not referring to him as a "her" but that's what they said, they said "her"...So I am going with what they said, since it's quoted...I thought people would understand that.
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heatherrose



2F2, I did not read the article because
I assumed that it would infuriate me.



"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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tekla

2F2, I did not read the article because
I assumed that it would infuriate me.


RTFA

Then comment.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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heatherrose



Quote from: tekla on August 31, 2009, 07:57:06 PMRTFA

Then comment.


I reread the original post which I read almost twenty-four hours ago,
assuming that I had missed the link to an article which she was quoting.
There was no link. I retract my apology.



GOMBYAA
"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Calistine

Q actually stands for questioning. It fits considering all queer people question themselves
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Inphyy

Quote from: heatherrose on August 31, 2009, 09:27:57 PM



I reread the original post which I read almost twenty-four hours ago,
assuming that I had missed the link to an article which she was quoting.
There was no link. I retract my apology.



GOMBYAA

I said the news, not an article...
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MasterAsh

Quote from: heatherrose on August 31, 2009, 07:20:46 PM

2F2

Quote from: heatherrose on August 31, 2009, 09:27:57 PM
GOMBYAA

. . .The first one I thought was common, but I couldn't find a definition. The second, I can't even decipher given context.

Please elaborate.  :(
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