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What surgery do you think is more important? Sex change,Breast Implants,FFS etc!

Started by Teena89, October 04, 2009, 08:29:48 PM

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Teena89

Hey its me teena

The thing is i want a boob job one day, then i want a sex change other day then i want a brazillan butt job thing!!!!! but i don't know???? it really confusing me lately!... im get brace  first out all of these surgery cause i find your 'simle' is one of the most acttractive features of a person you know what i mean!... so thats frist and i have to wear it for three years too! man i wish i started early (Braces) any way back to the surgery stuff the only time i want a sex change is when i watch porn ( of course) i just want to have sex its so annoying!..., when i get into relationships with a guy witch i don't do because i have a penis- you know what i mean!!!! and the boob job thing, cousin of mine says thats tat make you look like a girl  more etc  but i want a brazillan butt job But also (Guys) can't deal with a girl with boobs and a penis but they can deal with a girl with samll boobs and a vagina!!!! so true! i don't knw i m just confused im just thing of the braces now! i just don't know about the sex change- because you know what they say Its easy to dig a hole, then build a pole! lol yea i just dont want to regert! man i been on HRT for 4 years now doctor said, "Im infertillie!" sort of! like  I don't know if i want kids?????????????????......... i love my little cousins and that but i think it would cost too much to put some sperm in a sperm bank i guess you can't have everything!.....

Mwah Teena  thanks 4 reading
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Janet_Girl

For me, first and foremost SRS.  But for now I am settling on an Orchidectomy.  After that BA.  I am still not happy with my bust line.


Janet
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Hannah

I've chosen to have my face and maybe some body contouring done before having my...hole...dug.
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sarahb

My priorities...FFS, SRS, BA. With FFS done I'm working on SRS. At some point I'll be able to get to BA, probably not for some time though.
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sd

Quote from: SarahR on October 05, 2009, 01:33:57 AM
My priorities...FFS, SRS, BA. With FFS done I'm working on SRS. At some point I'll be able to get to BA, probably not for some time though.
That is the order for me as well.
Blending in is more important than downstairs, or up top. Breasts will continue to grow for a while, and enhancers help a lot, and they are cheap and safer than surgery.
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sweetstars

FFS should be the priority, the rest is really up to you.  So get FFS first, and worry about the rest later.
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kae m

Quote from: sweetstars on October 05, 2009, 07:59:35 AM
FFS should be the priority, the rest is really up to you.  So get FFS first, and worry about the rest later.
It's different for everyone, though.  My face really bothers me, and my lower region is in a non-functional state until I get it fixed, and a BA just isn't a priority.  Not everyone needs FFS, and by "needs FFS" I mean it's critical to their own self acceptance.  That's how I feel about FFS, but I feel the same way about SRS too.  I'm still unsure of what my priority is, my face is obviously a lot more public, but it's more expensive and I won't feel "done" until SRS.  SRS has the benefit of allowing me to change ALL my documents, but I do live in a state that will let me change my license without a SRS letter.

I think I will end up doing FFS first, but it may come down to my work situation when the time comes to schedule things.
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vanna

i was always lucky to of been born small with a female shaped body and hrt has played it part too, even though i have been full time for a long time my face has reall began to depress me so im off to Dr Suporn in feb and 20k lighter in money.

it really is personal choices i wanted that first to feel happy again and then as soon as i recover it will be srs, ba to add the final touch and start to live how i want to again and with the person i want too.
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Dana Lane

Work on my face to remove manly features. I am not sure I want to transition all the way to female but most assuredly want to get rid of my male parts/features.
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Former TS Separatist who feels deep regret
http://www.transadvocate.com/category/dana-taylor
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Myself

FFS definitely.
Boobs don't make a girl and they grow alone, no one sees your bottom part unless you wish it.
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heatherrose




Personally, I can not consider my sex
to be female until I have a virgina.




"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Deanna_Renee

I'm still not to the point of starting HRT, so that is priority #1. After that, the face is what people see first when you meet them and, for me, it is what I see most of myself. I need/want to get rid of that male looking face - FFS first for me ASAP (anyone got a winning lottery ticket they can lend me?). I also despise that dangly bit between the legs and can't wait to get the pole replaced with a hole. :)

As for the breasts, I'm going to wait to see what those good 'ole hormones do for the girls before I invest in silicone/saline. I like 'em au natural.

So, HRT, FFS, SRS and if I get desperate BA.

Deanna
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Dana Lane

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Former TS Separatist who feels deep regret
http://www.transadvocate.com/category/dana-taylor
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Dana Lane

Quote from: Janet Lynn on October 05, 2009, 11:33:20 AM
Breast Augmentation.  aka Boob Job.  ;D


Janet

OMG, I should have known.  Thanks Janet! I have a feeling I won't have to worry about that. My mom had DD or DDDs and her mom well...hers were measured by buckets.  huge!  I am actually scared right now.
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Former TS Separatist who feels deep regret
http://www.transadvocate.com/category/dana-taylor
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Julie Marie

Number One - Facial hair removal!!!  This is a must unless you're joining the circus.  I know it's not a surgery but it takes a long time and should be done before FFS or you could find hairs where you never expected to find them.  :o

As for the surgeries, that depends on your situation.  I opted for FFS & BA first and canceled my GRS date so that people at work would have an easier time with my transition.  I regretted that decision to the point of depression.  GRS was, for me, without a doubt, the most important surgery.

Each of us has different needs.  If your outward appearance is most important, FFS & BA make sense.  If it's the internal feeling of having mind and body in sync, then bottom surgery could be the answer.  You have to decide for yourself.

Julie
When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.
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Valerie Elizabeth

Quote from: Myself on October 05, 2009, 10:55:03 AM
FFS definitely.
Boobs don't make a girl and they grow alone, no one sees your bottom part unless you wish it.

I agree and I disagree.

I think FFS is an important first step.  I agree that breasts don't make a girl, and they do grow.  When I reach 2.5 years from the start of HRT I will make decisions regarding a BA, until then I am waiting.

To me, SRS is almost as important as FFS, but I think in a lot of cases, FFS is needed to be accepted.  You are right, no one would see your genitals unless you showed them, but for me it has nothing to do with other people.  For me, SRS is for me, and whether I am going to show it to anyone has nothing to do with it.


So for me, FFS, SRS, then anything else if you feel you need them.

"There comes a point in life when you realize everything you know about yourself, it's all just conditioning."  True Blood

"You suffer a lot more hiding something than if you face up to it."  True Blood
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K8

Quote from: Julie Marie on October 05, 2009, 02:31:16 PM
Number One - Facial hair removal!!!  This is a must unless you're joining the circus.

Me too.  Then SRS. 

Quote from: Valerie Elizabeth on October 05, 2009, 07:04:16 PM
You are right, no one would see your genitals unless you showed them, but for me it has nothing to do with other people.  For me, SRS is for me, and whether I am going to show it to anyone has nothing to do with it.

I want that "F" on my IDs, I'm tired of carrying around *his* crap, and my pants don't fit right.  And, if I'm really lucky I will find a guy or two to rock in my cradle. ;)

My breasts will be whatever size they decide to be.  So far, I'm comfortable wearing enhancers, and they're not that expensive. :)

As far as FFS goes, my feeling is that the world is just stuck with my face >:(, although I do have a consult tomorrow for a nose job. :D  (Ah, Vanity, they name is woman.)

- Kate
Life is a pilgrimage.
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V M

SRS - I'm rather happy with the rest of my body. 2nd would be removal of what little facial hair I have. Maybe FFS just to make me look younger  :icon_chick:
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Kay

I'll have to copy SarahR.  FFS, SRS, then maybe BA.  I'm still working on facial hair though, and then HRT will begin in a few months...so I've got a while before any of the rest of the alphabet soup is done.  Still...it's time to start saving those pennies....
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Everyone has their priorities.  I guess mine are primarily about being somewhat passable for social and employment reasons.  Just like the turtle...slow and steady...until I've finished the last of that alphabet soup.  ;)
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