My mother, grandmother and friend all have it bone at the sides, not fat.
I dobut we get fat at the sides, only at the back, but maybe.
They have wider hips than shoulders.
Measuring around my shoulders is about 38-40 (hard! tape keeps falling), around the hips it's 33-34. have quite a difference!
Personally I am not sure if mine is wider than men or not, definitely has fat at the back but not at the sides.
Then again, I am a bit overweight also, and most of my fat is still around the waist so who knows what the next months of HRT will do.
I hope to have the pelvis bone grow a bit more

Edit: btw ketsy, would you volunteer your meaures?