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I don't feel like I fit in anywhere.

Started by emoboi, June 21, 2010, 11:53:50 PM

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tekla

About the best advice I ever got in life, though it took me a few years to really understand what he meant when he said it.  But so long as I'm never a 'part of the group' it doesn't matter which group I'm with.  Which is why I'm just as comfortable hanging out with multi-millionaire rock stars or street people, and equally at home in the faculty club or the Hell's Angel's clubhouse.  LIke Joe Walsh said:

It's tough to handle this fortune and fame
Everybody's so different, I haven't changed


FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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emoboi

*group hug* lol. It just scares me even thinking of going up and talking to someone I don't know.
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Nathan.

Quote from: emoboi on June 22, 2010, 02:39:44 PM
It just scares me even thinking of going up and talking to someone I don't know.

I have the same problem, i'm really shy.
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emoboi

Yes, it's my fear of rejection, so if I dont do it I dont get rejected, but I make no friends lol
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Vin

Quote from: emoboi on June 22, 2010, 02:46:22 PM
Yes, it's my fear of rejection, so if I dont do it I dont get rejected, but I make no friends lol

I have that problem too. :(


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James42

I think a lot of people share that fear, but you never know untill you try, what if you pass up a really good potential friendship?
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~Jay~

Quote from: emoboi on June 22, 2010, 02:39:44 PM
*group hug* lol. It just scares me even thinking of going up and talking to someone I don't know.

Me to I'm also VERY shy

(knows someone who is vins friend :) )
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emoboi

Yea when I go back to school IM going to be more outgoing, even though it scares the ->-bleeped-<- out of me lol
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Silver

Quote from: emoboi on June 22, 2010, 08:17:35 PM
Yea when I go back to school IM going to be more outgoing, even though it scares the ->-bleeped-<- out of me lol

I had to get over the same kind of crippling shyness and now I'm not so bad. People can definitely be entertaining. Hey, if they don't like you what do you have to lose? Just don't present yourself as fragile/vulnerable because they'll either pick on you or isolate you in your own sort of group corner. Then you'd probably be better of leaving. Because you shouldn't stand for that sort of thing.

Something that bothers someone will probably be charming to somebody else.
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