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Will i really feel depressed after srs??

Started by Zoi, September 18, 2010, 04:16:50 PM

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Zoi

hi there

how is every one doing :)

i was just wondering is it true that most girls get into serious scary depression few days after srs surgery , it kinda scared me..
i hope i see some good advice to avoid the drama lol.

with all love 

Zeze
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Janet_Girl

Many people have post-operation depression.  Generally it is from the anesthesia than the operation its self.
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Zoi

Quote from: Janet Lynn on September 18, 2010, 04:28:54 PM
Many people have post-operation depression.  Generally it is from the anesthesia than the operation its self.
yeah i thought maybe the pain and the weakness cause that
i jst freaked out cause i know a girl that wanted to kill her self after srs ,so i started thinking what if that happened to me she said her reason was cause she didn't feel that she have any more dreams or goals

in my case my next goal after srs is totally studying fashion in italy
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katgirl74

The post-op depression that many feel is a combination of things, anethesia, change in hormones, and the fact that they have spent so much time and effort leading up to surgery that it is a kind of "now what?" moment. Other things that play in as well are things like final results/appearance are not immediate, as one heals one wants the healing to be done but it take a while. This is no over night miracle. For some people, who may not have any support structure, the healing process can bring about even greater feelings of loneliness, this is a time where you need help and people around occasionally and if no one is there it can be depressing. One has to be prepared for one or all of these possible causes of post-up depression. I hit just a little bit of it after going back to work, and realizing my energy was not up to snuff yet and I had some minor issues with healing the first week back at work. Once I got through that I was fine.
   This may seem scary, but if you are prepared, have a support structure(whether friends of therapist), and are aware that it may come, you will likely be fine. It's good you have goals and things to focus on, that will help. I had school and a new girlfriend to help me focus on new things and not get the "what's next" blues.
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Renate

I'd suggest avoiding general anesthesia if you can.
A spinal anesthetic can be used for SRS.
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K8

Other than a 'now what?' phase, I didn't experience any depression.  The 'now what?' was partly because I wasn't sure where to put my energy now that I didn't have to put it into transition, and partly because I now felt complete for the first time in my life - a little like when you come out of the dark and blink at the light.

I had general anesthetic.  It took weeks or months to get out of my system, but I don't think that it affected my mood.  I knew ahead of time that it would take a while to clear my system of the anesthetic and to heal enough to feel fully energized again, so I didn't get bummed out when it happened.

I hadn't heard that most women get scarily depressed after SRS, and that wasn't my experience.

- Kate
Life is a pilgrimage.
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Asfsd4214

Quote from: Renate on September 18, 2010, 07:24:30 PM
I'd suggest avoiding general anesthesia if you can.
A spinal anesthetic can be used for SRS.

I've never experienced a spinal anesthesia, but I have experienced general anesthesia... and yeah, I agree, the side effects SUCK.
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Cindy

I think the anesthesia has an impact, but also I think there is a degree of of post-natal depression syndrome.  Ok the hormone levels may not be changing as much as in PND but the life change is. You have wanted this to happen for ever but then it happens. Takes a while to recover, that's why we need friends and sites like this.

Cindy
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rejennyrated

Quote from: K8 on September 18, 2010, 08:08:42 PM
Other than a 'now what?' phase, I didn't experience any depression.  The 'now what?' was partly because I wasn't sure where to put my energy now that I didn't have to put it into transition, and partly because I now felt complete for the first time in my life - a little like when you come out of the dark and blink at the light.

I had general anesthetic.  It took weeks or months to get out of my system, but I don't think that it affected my mood.  I knew ahead of time that it would take a while to clear my system of the anesthetic and to heal enough to feel fully energized again, so I didn't get bummed out when it happened.

I hadn't heard that most women get scarily depressed after SRS, and that wasn't my experience.

- Kate
I have to say I'm with Kate on this one. Of course its a very long time now since my original op but I had my little update earlier this year. I have to say that on neither occasion did I get depressed.

I think it helped too that for both ops they happened pretty quickly. Unlike most I didn't have the experience of waiting impatiently and having to slog it out on a long formal RLE before the first op. I had kind of done RLE through simply living my life before I sought medical help and fortunately I found a doctor willing to accept that. So it probably didn't get built up in my mind quite so much. It was more like a natural evolution which therefore had less emotional energy invested and so I didn't get the huge "what now?"
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spacial

Quote from: Renate on September 18, 2010, 07:24:30 PM
I'd suggest avoiding general anesthesia if you can.
A spinal anesthetic can be used for SRS.

Not for me. Not for anything. Not at any price. When my ugly bits go, I don't want to watch.   ;D

But seriously, medicines affect each of us slightly differrently. Alcohol makes some feel really happy and make them forget things. Me, I get suicidal.

Because someone else has had a dperessing reaction doesn't mean you will.

And to be quite blunt, a bit of a downer is a small price to pay for what you're getting. I'd go though a month of downs to get that.
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Renate

Quote from: spacial on September 19, 2010, 04:20:13 AM
I don't want to watch.

With spinal anesthetic they slip enough "happy juice" in your IV that you'll be complacent looking at the ceiling.
That is, if you don't actually fall asleep.
Add to that, that it is physically impossible to see anything going on from where you're lying.

Also, spinal anesthetic avoids intubation, where they stick a pipe down your throat between your vocal cords.
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spacial

Understand.

The last time I had a geneal, they piled me with valium.

The last thing I remember was a nurse looking down at me saying that I'm not suppose to be enjoying that.

But seriously ZeZe, if you get down, there's always Susans' where you can chat it through.
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Sandy

Post op depression is a common occurrence, irrespective of the procedure performed.  And not everyone gets them and not all the time.

Most surgeons will attribute it to the surgical trauma itself, the anesthesia, and physical and mental stability.  Post FFS, I had a fairly severe bout of depression, but I pulled out of it in a couple of weeks.  Post GRS I was too busy smiling to get depressed.

No one is quite sure what the actual mechanism is, but most surgeons are aware of it and will provide advice on handling it.  It really is supposed to be temporary, and if it lasts longer, there may be other non-surgical issues involved.

This really shouldn't be a big issued to decide on whether or not to have SRS.  More emphasis should probably be on the practical issues such as acceptance and your life afterwards.

-Sandy
Out of the darkness, into the light.
Following my bliss.
I am complete...
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katgirl74

I think, for me, the general anesthesia after effects were worse. I couldn't concentrate long enough to read a book or even watch TV for almost two weeks, that's saying something if I didn't have a long enough attention span for TV. I was so glad once the effects fully wore off and I was able to concentrate again!
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Ms.Behavin

Nope No depression for me, Big Grin though..  I was having Hot flashes from quiting HRT.  Once Dr. McGinn told me what was going on I was happy with that too!!!  But yes YMMV.

Beni
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gothique11

As someone else mentioned, you also can get the "now what" syndrome, which can lead to depression in some. After spending so much time on transition, this step is huge and very liberating. It's very common to wonder what to do next in your life as transitioning issues become less of a focus in your life. It's important to go with it and explore yourself, even outside of the "trans world" and grow as the woman you are. It can be a very exciting time, but also scary at times. I know it was for me, and still is in some aspects. I really don't know what to do with my life, but then again, I also have other mental issues that play into that, which I'm working on.
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pretty pauline

Quote from: ZeZe on September 18, 2010, 04:16:50 PM
hi there

how is every one doing :)

i was just wondering is it true that most girls get into serious scary depression few days after srs surgery , it kinda scared me..
i hope i see some good advice to avoid the drama lol.


You should be ok, getting depressed after srs is very much an individual thing, everybody's circumstances are different, the replys here most have coped, my own situation was unusual, when I transition it was very successful, I just wanted to be a girl and live as a girl but was slow to have srs, I had FFS and breast implants and completely passed, my Mam put me under pressure at the time to have srs, she kept telling me it would complete my transition, anyway I finally had srs in 1985, it didn't go well and got very depressed at the time, I had a second procedure done to improve things, the depression slowly got better when I realized srs was for the best and my future was secure as a woman, I just had nerves and anxiety about the whole thing at the time.
Iv no regrets, Iv my Mother to thank, Im now a happy married woman, I have a normal sexual relationship with my Husband, Id never have had that if I didn't have srs, it was a lot of pain, but a lot of gain, my Husband knows my history, but he now says Im now a beautiful woman, that makes me feel awesome and worth it all.
p
If your going thru hell, just keep going.
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Zoi

thanks alot all of you for the infos i think now im ready for whats waiting me i wont be surprised lol i just have to give my bf a freaking out depression alert lol so he can deal with it later
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