FTM/MTF dating?

[Taka]

i'm pretty sure i could manage to make it a fetish despite it not being a novelty to me... i like ambiguity in sex and/or gender (both male and female futanari...)

not that i prefer trans people, i don't think that's the case for me. i also like people with nice long hair, manly men, uber cute girls, catty creatures etc. my only serious fetish seems to be (old) scars. might not be too good if dating an ftm who's had top surgery... didn't think of that before *sigh*

oh well. personality is the most important to me anyway. i'd never date anyone just for some physical feature(s).

[AshleeLC]

Personally, I think it would be easier to date a FtM, maybe not in bed, but the fact that we would both have a common ground and be able to understand eachother better. Also it would be quite obvious whos role is which, aka whos the man and such

[aleon515]

Personally, I think it would be easier to date a FtM, maybe not in bed, but the fact that we would both have a common ground and be able to understand eachother better. Also it would be quite obvious whos role is which, aka whos the man and such

I dated an MTF, and it was NOT really easy to figure this out. I think the fact that I was very early in transition made it more difficult I suppose. But we did have a lot of understanding of each other. We aren't dating anymore but it is going to be a forever friends type of thing for sure.

--Jay

[cynthialee]

I find that being intimate with my transmasculine spouse rather easy.
In my universe the genitals are reversed on the sex's.

Kinda weird I know, but it works for me.

[meganB]

Since about a few years I became good friends with this FtM boy (both pre everything). Somehow we just instantly clicked and had been friends ever since (also even before he was on the T I found that he was handsome, just from a friends point of view). From there we became good friends over time (we also started HRT at almost the same time).

After some time he started to really open up to me and before I knew it he started to flirt with me and I flirted back (and I started to get feelings for him). Eventual he asked me out and I accepted it (prior to this I never considerd dating him). We arent dating now though (he doesn't know if he likes me or not), but he definitely doesn't want to lose me *big sigh*.

About pan/bi/straigth/gay, for me it doesn't matter what square I'm in. Gender doesn't mather to me, as long as he/she is someone who I could really love I'm fine with anything (he also doesn't want bottom surgery and i'm fine with that).

[stephaniec]

I'm 5 months on HRT. before this I had worked with a FTM. We were some what friends , but because of the conditions of the work environment it was a little stressful. He was very good looking , but at the time I was in some what denial of my self. I did though feel a strong sexual attraction for him and if I had been transitioning at the time its possible we could of dated.

[Lilis]

Interesting thread, and turn of events. I never imagined myself here, but life has a way of surprising. I just got off the phone with my new trans man friend. He's agreed to come over to my apartment this weekend to help me with my makeup.

During our call, he asked for my measurements, mentioning he might have some dresses from before his transition that he never purged. He thought they might fit me and said he'd bring them along when he visits. The gesture was so thoughtful that it caught me off guard.

Now, I'm looking around my apartment. Kinda messy around here. It seems the rest of this week will be spent tidying up, wait... cleaning, and making sure the place feels warm and inviting.

I'll admit, the thought of seeing him at my place makes me nervous. He's kind of cute, and that smile of his, it's enough to throw me completely off balance. ☺️