Here's what's working for me:
- Tracking my calories daily on LiveStrong
- Drinking at least 8 glasses (64oz) or water daily (also tracking my water intake
- Trying to get as close to 8 hours of sleep as possible at night
- Limiting salt, processed sugars, and wheat (bread is my addiction)
- Increasing my intake of fruits, veggies, beans
- Eating more soup. (Great way to get more beans and veggies, and makes me feel full.
- Keeping in mind that I'm doing this to become the person I've always wanted to be.
Here's what's not working:
- Any days that I forget to track calories or water I am over on calories, and under on water

- If I eat a lot of salt, I find that food moves through my system a lot slower and it makes me end up feeling bloated.
- When family comes for a visit food is a huge part of our activities - so I'm less likely to track, and more likely to go over on calories.
- Eating out at restaurants is hard - I'm amazed at how calorie dense restaurant food is!
- If I forget why I'm doing this, and get depressed or feel like a failure it undermines my progress.
In reality if I could only choose ONE thing that works for me it's tracking what I eat. It is amazing to me how if I just am aware of what I eat how I maintain SO MUCH MOE control over myself.
I also am finding myself turning food away now (?!?!?!?!?). I have this little internal evaluation that goes on that goes something like this:
"OMG, look at those cookies right there."
"How many calories is in there?"
"500?! Forget it, they aren't 500-Calories-Good. I'm only like 6/10 desperate for them right now."
There are some days where I want the cookies so bad it's worth the 500 calories and I'll give up my big bowl of soup for the cookies. But whereas before I'd just eat the cookies, now days I do this mental check and see how desperate I really am for them, and if I'm super desperate then I go for it and cut other things that day - but most of the time I end up opting for something that's a better calorie-to-pleasure ratio. It's super easy on things that I only moderately like that are also calorie dense, like ginger cookies - these are never a high enough calorie-to-pleasure ratio for me to eat.

Okay, just thought I'd share what is working for me at the moment.