<.< >.> I personally love my "girly" gifts. If I get "girly" clothes, I'm extremely happy. If I get a nice smelling perfume, I'm very happy and I'll wear it. If I get a new purse, I use it. I can't help it. It might be how I was raised....or I just really like to cross-dress (which I do).
Though generally this has stopped over the years and I get money from distant family for the most part, which makes it easier for me to get books or CDs or DVDs or something similar or maybe I'll be able to get a binder this year.
My favorite thing in the world to do is give presents, though. I generally make them (I made my parents a blanket this year, bought my mom some angel figurines [she collects them], and bought my dad a Godzilla toy [he loves Godzilla], and I got my sister a necklace with a horse on it, a horse calendar, one of those dog things that bark when you rub it's back, a teddy bear statue, and a Christmas mug). That being said, I try and get what I know everyone likes because it makes it awesome to see them smile. However, if I get something I don't want, I just smile and say "thank you" and store it away somewhere--I can't part with gifts unless I've had them for a few months and they don't get used.
Anywho, if you don't like the gifts, return them or give them to goodwill or a thrift store or give them to someone who really wants them. You can donate gifts to a lot of different places that will make sure the gifts are given to people who want/need them.
