Quote from: rejennyrated on December 22, 2010, 07:29:07 AM
Some of can and do!
Yes, my wife initiated the romance we have. We were good friends up to that point, but, apparently she got sick of waiting for me to get the hint.

That's probably a good thing that she did initiate, as that's just something I probably could never do (I just didn't have the confidence). It was a very wonderful day for both of us when she did it (although I think she was literally shaking - which was cute - although probably not shaking nearly as much as when I proposed!).
It's one of the things that makes our relationship neat - it's unique to the two of us. Sometimes we follow the rules, sometimes we don't.

That said, to the original poster, as far as your discovery: cool - it's neat when we find our place in the world and find out what is right for us.