Might sound kind of odd but dressing up a bit and messing around with makeup. All my life I've idolized androgynous, makeup-wearing guys and on those rare days where I think I look good like that, its like a dream come true. Stomping around town in my big old boots and trench coat are nice, too. And having my hair half-shaved, I passed with it like this even before I was trying, which still makes me quite happy to think about. And (maybe) oddly, having sex with my boyfriend. Even though I'm extremely submissive with him, maybe its a trust thing or the way he treats me, but I've never felt even remotely feminine around him and I absolutely love that... and the one time he introduced me to a co-worker as his boyfriend. That was a huge deal for me because they've all always known him to be straight (if really weird and flamboyant), and the way he just didn't give a damn what they thought about it just...agh. He treats me like a friggin king sometimes.