I need advice " i hope im in the right place "

[Harold938]

I'm a straight male and my problem is that

all my life i have only 1 good relainship with a female " 100% " that was about 8yrs ago and now when i want to meet a female " blind date / email to email "

they dont respond to me due to my facial injury or they want a fabio in there life " i explain latter " but i know is part of like and i move on and i dealt with it "and now the money shot"

why M2F / why did i come here " well i dont know " in fact i dont know if a TS girl will ever date me but i also here story about " this and that " like TS hooker but i'm not a perv but now after read about transgender i want to know what is the best direction should i go about dating a transgender female

i know this must 1 of many unique question but any advice will be accepted

[Steph]

Hello Harold.

Let me point out to you that this site is a support site for the transgender community,and  we are not a dating service, nor do we provide help or information along those lines.  You are welcome to stay as long as you abide by the rules that govern this site, and conduct yourself accordingly.

Steph

[Harold938]

Hello Harold.

Let me point out to you that this site is a support site for the transgender community,and  we are not a dating service, nor do we provide help or information along those lines.  You are welcome to stay as long as you abide by the rules that govern this site, and conduct yourself accordingly.

Steph

as i said i'm new and well i dont know where to start from one " i know this is not a dating forum " but i'm looking for advice about " mostly how and where " that all and i sorry for breaking the rules

[Kimberly]

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TS girl
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Well look at it this way. "TS Girl" = Girl who has gone though hell. The important part of that is G.I.R.L. As in, we really are not all that different from any other female. So your hint is simply to loose the distinction that there is a difference between say me and someone else who was born with the proper plumbing in the first place.

So, my advice for your query:

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i want to know what is the best direction should i go about dating a transgender female
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Is simply to say like any other female, and as a hint you are going about that all wrong

P.s.

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a female " 100% "
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... is similar to rubbing salt in a wound. Be thankful you are not near me.


Good day.

[Sarah Louise]

I have no idea where you are from Harold.  I have no idea what problem you have with your looks, but, from the general tone of your posts I think you will continue to have trouble getting dates.

It feels like you are putting women down in general.

Sarah L.

[cindianna_jones]

Harold, your message sounds like this to me:

Women want nothing to do with you, so now you are looking for companionship in the seconds bin. 

You have to admit that doesn't sound very complimentory to those of us to whom you direct your question.

I know that looks are not the only thing that women worry about when finding a lifelong companion.  You just need to get out more and meet people.  Don't let your accident determine the course for the rest of your life.  We here also have a defect we are working with.  We rise above it and move on.

Also, don't limit your quest for companionship to just a "mate".  Seek out new friends.  Remember, that to have friends, you must first be a friend.  Fill your life with people who you like to spend time with.  You never know, the relationship you seek may come through contacts with those very friends.

Cindi

[Harold938]

thank you for the advice and i will take it at face value and put it to work

so once again thank you

[Brianna]

You know, Harold. It's reasonably easy to get me in a state of direct yet friendly "Tough love."

But when you're posting something that makes Cindi Jones do it? That should be a clue that you've got things very wrong.

Still - for your edification, here is a list of four things I am not, and one that I am.
1. I am not less than 100 percent a woman.
2. I am not second helpings for someone with mysogynistic ideas about women
3. I am not a second prize.
4. I am not ANYTHING like a transsexual hooker

5. I AM someone that is very brave and has gone through remarkable hell and loss to become myself. The kind of man to complete me would have to be utterly amazing.

... and use punctuation correctly.

Bri

[binee]

Harold
    In our world today it is unfortunate that so many people have an image of poster-pinup as beauty. Not enough folks look for what's inside. My advise would be to be kind and loveing to all living beings. If you find someone with the same qualities, that will make for a relationship that is most fulfilling.
    Sorry to hear of your ingury. Such things are hard to deal with.
         Good luck       binee

OMG, if i could only learn to spell     My Kingdom For A Spellcheck !!!