Quote from: spacial on March 19, 2011, 06:58:56 AM
I understand your points. But the reality of feminism is that it is an expression of anger, resentment and revenge.
It set out to achieve high and good ideals, but failed understand that many women simply don't want what it was offering. So, it has been taken over by nazi types who seek to establish themselves at the head of a matriarchy. A matriarchy that is white, middle class, seemingly educated and western.
It utterly fails to address the enormous problems of the majority of women in the world, bowing to its cultural ignorance, especially in the case of Islam, where it cannot understand the strength of Islamic women, so walks away entirely.
The allegance of many women, especially younger women, to feminism, demonstrates they know little about it or the threat it presents to them.
Modern feminism doesn't seek to improve the lot of sex workers, it seeks to ban them altogether.
Modern feminism views the very concept of the housewife as a symbol of repression.
Modern feminism accuses men, generally, of sexual misconduct, as routine.
Modern feminsm fails because it views repression as only applying to women. Much like all nazi groups, who concentrate and highlight the problems of their own narrow interests, seeking to rectify these at the expense of others. (Which is, in essence, what nazism is). In Africa, especially, women are being raped by armies of victorious soldiers. This isn't repression of women. This is repression of the defeated. The men who fight against these scum, fight, not just for their own lives, but because they know the consequences of defeat mean their wives and daughters will be raped. That is what is meant by rape as a tool of war. The repressors aren't men, they are those that view war as accepetable.
The contemporary feminists are a much greater threat to transgender people, individualism and society that most seem to realise. The modern feminists are in positions of power and influence. Those that dare to challange them are dismissed, either as repressed women, in need of liberation or patriarchal men.
I dare to challange.
Okay. Let me see here. I will not attempt to defend the feminism of the past. But lets see what I can challenge in your post (on behalf of modern feminists), to maybe illustrate another side of this. You're very well spoken, and for that, I'm really glad to read your opinions!
feminism (and I will never capitalize 'feminism' because there is no ONE true Feminism), is an expression of resistance - feminism today challenges the notions that equality has been achieved. Equality has NOT been achieved, so feminism seeks to open eyes and minds of privileged groups (straight, white, able-bodied, middle-upper class cissexual men, predominantly.) But also, the feminism of today is seeking to open the minds of privileged cis-women also. Ciswomen who have thought for decades that they have achieved the equality that they set out for. feminism of today says "no." to that.
A matriarchy today cannot succeed, because there are too many voices that the feminism of the past has silenced in seeking one group's liberation oppression that outsiders of the privileged group face in many different ways. Yes, the feminism of today sounds like a mewling kitten sometimes. sometimes it's a roaring lion. but the feminism of today seeks *other* voices. voices from people who HAVE been 'othered' by the feminism of the past.
Now I have to concede that Western Ideals has made the feminism of the past absolutely ridiculous. This is slowly changing, by a lot of committed activists and young women and men too, who want to see grassroots equality built up inside of other countries, based solely within the cultures present. The feminism of today cannot accept the horrors that were done by colonialism, and respects that equality cannot begin on stolen ground. The women who 'blindly' commit to feminism today, are not the same women who seek to adopt children "from Africa [the country

]" to "give them a better life here."

The feminism of today seeks to foster awareness among cisgendered women, girls, men and is seeking to support the Trans communities in the only way it knows how - by seeking Trans stories and seeking out Trans voices, and it's beginning to recognize it's own privilege, of being cissexual, and never 'having' to share our experiences.
The feminism of today seeks to improve the lot of sex workers. The feminism of today includes sex workers, and supports fully their right to autonomy over their own bodies, and for the freedom of sex workers to report crimes without harassment, or threat of personal injury. It's not their yet; it won't be for a long time, but it has been making slow gains.
the feminism of today views this 'retro-stylized rockabilly/ 1950's femininity' as a backlash (Each 'wave' has had a backlash in some form... But as Judith Butler said "->-bleeped-<- the waves, we are the ocean!") The feminism of today supports the abilities of women, as a house-wife, as a business woman, as the head of their own household. The feminism of today is discouraging younger women to buy into the glamorous television shows, celebrity gossip, and the sexualization of cissexual women's bodies, and the eroticization of women of colour's bodies, lives and experiences.
The feminism of today seeks to show cissexual men their aiding of the systems of oppression, and to give voices back to women, about what "counts" as sexual misconduct, not just in empirical evidence, but trusting women's experiences. The feminism of today seeks to show cissexual men and women THEIR aiding of the systems of oppression that affect all of us within the trans communities.
The feminism of today, seeks to help women recognize and give VOICE to their oppression, and in doing so, providing a space where all people can share the lived experiences, and are no longer silenced.
The feminism of today seeks to say "We're not equal yet. Look at all of us, who are not white, cissexual, middle or upper class, not in education, not working, not able-bodied, not conforming to society's expectations. Where were you [feminism of yester-year] when we needed you? We've made our own rules now."
The people in power have a whole lot of privilege. The people in power are NOT all women, nor are they representational of actual communities, cultures, religious backgrounds, or gender varient. The feminism of today wants to change that. The feminism of today wants to give voices a chance to be heard, not making one cry, but the voices of thousands. The feminism of today wants us; trans sisters and brothers, trans mothers and trans fathers. It needs us. We're the silenced, the overlooked - Us and many other groups have been silenced by the feminism of the past, and the feminism of today wants to hear our stories, our pain, our struggles. Not to assimilate, but to give separate voices to all of us.
The feminism of today knows that - I'm part of it, we can change it.