I wonder what it is going to be like. I doubt I'll have problems finding anyone (believe it or not, there is a list of people who are "waiting" -- it's kind of flattering, but kinda creepy. Some of those people couldn't wait, so pre-op I've been with a couple of people in the last couple of months. But, it's getting awkward with the parts not matching, so I'm trying to keep my hands off people until after SRS and I heal).
I don't know why so many guys are after me; it's flattering in one way, and annoying at the same time.
Posted on: September 18, 2007, 01:43:28 PM
Quote from: Tink on July 04, 2007, 10:18:01 PM
ROFL 
You're funny, Thundra. BTW I wish I can contribute to this thread, but I've not had any experiences after my SRS. I'm still a virgin. Maybe soon...who knows, right Thundra? 
LOL
tink 
Seriously, Tink? I've seen your icons and you're drop dead gorgeous! I can't believe that men haven't chased you down the street! But, then again, I understand about wanting to do it with someone you love, etc, etc.
Oh yeah, pre-op one guy didn't know I was Trans -- urm, but I had to tell him, of course. *yay the crying game* I actually thought he knew before hand, he knows my friends, and he knew me for months and months, and I just figured that he'd figured it out. I pulled one of my friends aside one day and asked her if he knew, she said that he thought he knew and that he'd probably figured it out. Well, it turns out that he didn't. So, my friend talked to him and I talked to him and he was okay with it.
The other guy was this guy that I was chasing, and then my girlfriend got jealous and competed for him. So, she slept with him first, but we were all still friends. And then somehow we ended up in a three-way. I don't know how that happened, and we were all sober! Anyway, it was an interesting experience.
And then, of course, on the girl side of things there's my girlfriend and that's about it. Others it was more foreplay with women (and other men).
I live a really weird life... and my relationship is pretty complex. Thus, I'm trying to stay out of ppls beds and trying hard not to flirt and make out with ppl. I don't want to end up with the wrong person who doesn't know and then finds out. Plus, things are so complex now that I need to take a step back anyway.
Posted on: September 18, 2007, 01:53:41 PM
Oh yeah, my gf is going to be my first person once I heal. I don't know who the next person would be, probably some guy but I don't know who.
