Quote from: regina on June 26, 2007, 05:42:23 PM
Hi, I'm getting SRS in November and am thinking (a LOT) about what hetero sex could be like with a man. I'm specifically interested in the experiences of straight post-op women and their first time with a guy. A few questions:
1) How long was it after SRS that you actually had penetrative sex?
2) Did your partner know about your trans history (be honest now)?
3) Was your partner someone you really cared about or more someone you were with just to have the experience?
4) What did you like about the experience both physically and emotionally?
5) What didn't you like (or what was difficult) physically and emotionally?
6) Did you have other sexual experiences with that same partner or was it a one time deal?
7) How does your first time (as a woman) feel now that you have some distance from it.
Many thanks your sharing, honesty and candor. I'm really looking for your own personal experience rather than any advice.
ciao,
Gina M.
Well, I have a somewhat different experience to add but I think you'll find it interesting
I slept with a post-op TS a while back which killed two birds with one stone for me, firstly I'd never slept with a girl like that before thus figured I may as well give it a go before losing the ability to, secondly it gave me some first hand experience with the handiwork of my most likely future surgeon.
1) the girl was like 6 years post-op
2) I would not have suspected anything unless I was right up close, there was little scarring.
3) just to have the experience
4) she enjoyed it but i didn't ask for a breakdown of emotional/physical feelings, I think it was more physical.
5) Physically it's a bit tricky to get past the pubic bone and the muscle they tunnel through though that's more due to my own lack of decent functionality and i'm not sure if the pubic bone thing is an issue with natal girls, there were no depth issues.
6) first and only experience with her to date.
7) N/A
