Susan's Place Transgender Resources

Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 05:56:37 PM

Title: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 05:56:37 PM
Hi girls, I've searching for my middle name.  Can you please look into my avatars eyes (yes, those are mine) and tell me what you see.

Thank you sisters, Jessica
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: KathyLauren on January 25, 2018, 06:08:13 PM
For some reason, you look like a Jessica Anne.

I have no idea why.  I can't get that combination out of my mind when I look at your picture.  It's either a brain fart or a sign.  Not sure which.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica_Rose on January 25, 2018, 06:15:44 PM
Well 'Rose' is taken! How about Renee?
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: echo7 on January 25, 2018, 07:05:37 PM
I suggest picking a very unique name as a middle name.  Jessica is a very common name, which is great and especially helpful when you meet new people and need to introduce yourself.  But for a middle name it might be fun to have a very uncommon name.

for example:
https://www.popsugar.com/moms/Unusual-Girls-Names-35275823
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:08:40 PM
Quote from: echo7 on January 25, 2018, 07:05:37 PM
I suggest picking a very unique name as a middle name.  Jessica is a very common name, which is great and especially helpful when you meet new people and need to introduce yourself.  But for a middle name it might be fun to have a very uncommon name.

for example:
https://www.popsugar.com/moms/Unusual-Girls-Names-35275823

That is a very interesting idea.  Maybe look at an old Nordic name, like Freya or Sigi
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:38:33 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 05:56:37 PM
Can you please look into my avatars eyes (yes, those are mine) and tell me what you see.

Iris


- Stephanie
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Bari Jo on January 25, 2018, 07:41:15 PM
I vote Kandi or Kara, either way you sign as JK which makes me smile:)

Bari Jo
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:45:08 PM
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:38:33 PM
Iris


- Stephanie

Your Hilarious Stephanie!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Lady Sarah on January 25, 2018, 07:47:23 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 05:56:37 PM
Hi girls, I've searching for my middle name.  Can you please look into my avatars eyes (yes, those are mine) and tell me what you see.

Thank you sisters, Jessica

To me, you look like a Jessica Lynn.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:48:20 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:45:08 PM
Your Hilarious Stephanie!

No?

Cornea? Retina? Sclera?


- Stephanie
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:49:21 PM
Quote from: Lady Sarah on January 25, 2018, 07:47:23 PM
To me, you look like a Jessica Lynn.

Lynn is my actual sisters middle name.
So close!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:51:05 PM
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:48:20 PM
No?

Cornea? Retina? Sclera?


- Stephanie

Just not "bags"
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:52:54 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:51:05 PM
Just not "bags"

Ah yes. Darkcircle. Pinkeye. Cataract.

Just trying to help...


- Stephanie
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:54:35 PM
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:52:54 PM
Ah yes. Darkcircle. Pinkeye. Cataract.

Just trying to help...


- Stephanie

Sapphire!!!
Title: Middle name
Post by: steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:58:32 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 07:54:35 PM
Sapphire!!!

Twitch.

But seriously, I do kind of like Iris.

I really recommend thinking about what you love, what words describe it, and seeing what fits for you. Something Like Mopar Hemi.

You know what I picked for myself and why. It took a while to find it, but it really means something to me, and it's definitely out of the ordinary.

Stephanie Rhapsody Bensinger
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Gertrude on January 25, 2018, 08:10:11 PM
Lauren


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Devlyn on January 25, 2018, 08:13:00 PM
I like this game! Last time we played I won.  :)

I looked at your eyes and Jessica Pearl came to me.

Hugs, Devlyn

PS Iris is hilarious!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Colleen_definitely on January 25, 2018, 08:19:14 PM
Danger (you know you've made the joke, now you can live it too!)

Hmm, Jessica Death Metal Messiah Lastname sounds pretty awesome.

OK enough...

I chose Laurette because it was really high on my list of names I was choosing from.  But I have a couple of friends named Laura and didn't want to be creepy so Colleen won out.  Colleen Laurette really works with my one syllable last name. 

Do you have a second or third choice that might work as mine did?

I'm with KathyLauren on the Anne idea, it looks like it would fit you and it does roll off of the tongue nicely.  I could see Marie working as well.  Jessica Elise could work too.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 08:20:40 PM
So many ideas!  I like exotic in my Nordic heritage, but my two closest girlfriends independently came up with Marie.  That may be a sign.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 08:21:59 PM
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on January 25, 2018, 08:19:14 PM
Danger (you know you've made the joke, now you can live it too!)

Hmm, Jessica Death Metal Messiah Lastname sounds pretty awesome.

OK enough...

I chose Laurette because it was really high on my list of names I was choosing from.  But I have a couple of friends named Laura and didn't want to be creepy so Colleen won out.  Colleen Laurette really works with my one syllable last name. 

Do you have a second or third choice that might work as mine did?

I'm with KathyLauren on the Anne idea, it looks like it would fit you and it does roll off of the tongue nicely.  I could see Marie working as well.  Jessica Elise could work too.

Omg, that's 3 votes for Marie!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: tgirlamg on January 25, 2018, 08:24:13 PM
I took my mothers middle name Marie as mine... 😀
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 08:25:54 PM
Quote from: tgirlamc on January 25, 2018, 08:24:13 PM
I took my mothers middle name Marie as mine... 😀

Is that a suggestion Ashley?  Because that would be 4 independently derived Marie's
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Devlyn on January 25, 2018, 08:27:39 PM
I'm a huge fan of Marie.  ;)
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: tgirlamg on January 25, 2018, 08:27:56 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 08:25:54 PM
Is that a suggestion Ashley?  Because that would be 4 independently derived Marie's

It is indeed!!!... I would be honored to share middle names with you dear sister!!!! 😀
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Becca Kay on January 25, 2018, 08:43:27 PM
My mother and oldest sister's middle names are "Kay" 

When I started to transition i thought i wanted that middle name. I wanted to be a girl and that was the name the girls got in my family. I was given my father's middle name, Allen, at birth.  Over the past couple of months I decided to change the spelling of my middle name to "Allyn".  It feels both like I'm keeping a bit of what I was given and also making it my own.

Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Becca Kay on January 25, 2018, 08:44:26 PM
I like Marie!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Charlie Nicki on January 25, 2018, 08:51:28 PM
Hey Jess! So just like I told you in our WhatsApp conversation, I really like Marie for you. It's sweet just like you are. Hugs and kisses sweetheart!

Sent from my Moto G (5) Plus using Tapatalk

Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: tgirlamg on January 25, 2018, 08:52:35 PM
Becca!... I Love your new avatar!!!! Gorgeous!!! 😀
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 08:56:40 PM
I think the consensus is Marie!  Thank you so much girlfriends!  Thank you Laurie for the first naming and seeing the real me. 
Meet Jessica Marie!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Colleen_definitely on January 25, 2018, 08:59:17 PM
Well, that was easy. 

I like it.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: rmaddy on January 25, 2018, 09:03:19 PM
Consider middle names that form a pleasant lyrical bridge between your first and last name.  It is hard for me to recommend a middle name without know your last (though I understand that you might not want to post it) because I think poetic quality is actually the main function of a middle name.  In my case (Madison), I also got a decent nickname out of it, but you already have that base well covered with Jessica.

Have fun choosing!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: tgirlamg on January 25, 2018, 09:16:43 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 08:56:40 PM
I think the consensus is Marie!  Thank you so much girlfriends!  Thank you Laurie for the first naming and seeing the real me. 
Meet Jessica Marie!

Pleased to meet you Jessica Marie!!!! 😀
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 09:18:27 PM
Quote from: tgirlamc on January 25, 2018, 09:16:43 PM
Pleased to meet you Jessica Marie!!!! 😀

🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 10:52:11 PM
I am still amazed that so many independently saw me as Jessica Marie.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Colleen_definitely on January 25, 2018, 11:08:36 PM
Sometimes the name just fits the face.  It also has a pleasing sound, so you win both ways.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Laurie on January 25, 2018, 11:14:43 PM
 Like I told you elsewhere it fits. Hello Ms Jessica Marie XXXXXX aka Lil' Sis

Hugs,
  Laurie

Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 11:23:18 PM
Quote from: Laurie on January 25, 2018, 11:14:43 PM
Like I told you elsewhere it fits. Hello Ms Jessica Marie XXXXXX aka Lil' Sis

Hugs,
  Laurie

Thank you my loving big sister, who keeps me out of trouble, who holds my figurative hand, whose shoulder dries my happy tears.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 11:36:31 PM
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on January 25, 2018, 11:08:36 PM
Sometimes the name just fits the face.  It also has a pleasing sound, so you win both ways.

Thank you Colleen, I agree.  You, Ashley, Charlie Nicki and Laurie all came up with my name by just knowing my soul and seeing her in my eyes with no prompting.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: KathyLauren on January 26, 2018, 07:21:04 AM
Quote from: Gertrude on January 25, 2018, 08:10:11 PM
Lauren
You have excellent taste in middle names!  ;D
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Charlie Nicki on January 26, 2018, 07:48:25 AM
Quote from: Jessica on January 25, 2018, 08:56:40 PM
I think the consensus is Marie!  Thank you so much girlfriends!  Thank you Laurie for the first naming and seeing the real me. 
Meet Jessica Marie!

I'm kinda jealous for not getting any credit haha.

Love your name, Jessica Marie  :-* :-* :-*
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: DeniseGrace on January 26, 2018, 08:35:07 AM
Maybe try one of the online Name sites that list tons of beginning letter, along with place of origin and original meanings.
:)

DeniseGrace
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 26, 2018, 08:52:25 AM
Quote from: Charlie Nicki on January 26, 2018, 07:48:25 AM
I'm kinda jealous for not getting any credit haha.

Love your name, Jessica Marie  :-* :-* :-*

Oh girlfriend, you were the second dear friend that saw Marie in my eyes, and that was only because you were in school when I asked.  You were a very important part in my search.

Jessica Marie
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: steph2.0 on January 26, 2018, 09:01:19 AM
Marie is also my wife's middle name. It's a name used by all the best women.

Congratulations for discovering yourself!
It's a pleasure to meet you Jessica Marie.

Stephanie
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 26, 2018, 09:04:21 AM
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 26, 2018, 09:01:19 AM
Marie is also my wife's middle name. It's a name used by all the best women.

Congratulations for discovering yourself!
It's a pleasure to meet you Jessica Marie.

Stephanie

Thank you so much Stephanie!  It is a beautiful name.

Jessica Marie, Jessica Marie, Jessica Marie that's me!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 26, 2018, 09:12:13 AM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on January 25, 2018, 08:27:39 PM
I'm a huge fan of Marie.  ;)

Thank you Devlyn, I'm happy to share it with you and so many other beautiful women!

Jessica Marie
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Harley Quinn on January 26, 2018, 09:29:11 AM
Jessica Lynn comes to mind
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 26, 2018, 09:34:03 AM
Quote from: Harley Quinn on January 26, 2018, 09:29:11 AM
Jessica Lynn comes to mind

Thank you Harley!  Lynn was a strong choice, but having 4 girlfriends (3 very close) tell me separately that I was Jessica Marie, kinda clinched it for me.

I'm Jessica Marie
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Harley Quinn on January 26, 2018, 09:36:23 AM
Congratulations! That's exactly how I got my name... go with your close friends, they know you best. ☺
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Bari Jo on January 26, 2018, 10:23:52 AM
Jessica Marie is a great name, you wear it nicely.

Bari Jo
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 26, 2018, 10:28:35 AM
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 26, 2018, 10:23:52 AM
Jessica Marie is a great name, you wear it nicely.

Bari Jo

Thank you Bari Jo, I do think it fits me!  I'm glad so many agree!

I'm Jessica Marie!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Laurie on January 26, 2018, 11:52:42 AM
Quote from: Charlie Nicki on January 26, 2018, 07:48:25 AM
I'm kinda jealous for not getting any credit haha.

Love your name, Jessica Marie  :-* :-* :-*

It's Okay Nicki I'll share. We both told her the same thing independently and we were the first she asked.

Hugs,
   Laurie
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: AnnMarie2017 on January 26, 2018, 11:56:40 AM
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 25, 2018, 07:48:20 PM
No?

Cornea? Retina? Sclera?


- Stephanie

Amblyopia sounds kind of romantic.
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Jessica on January 26, 2018, 12:13:03 PM
Quote from: Laurie on January 26, 2018, 11:52:42 AM
Quote from: Charlie Nicki on January 26, 2018, 07:48:25 AM
I'm kinda jealous for not getting any credit haha.

Love your name, Jessica Marie  :-* :-* :-*

It's Okay Nicki I'll share. We both told her the same thing independently and we were the first she asked.

Hugs,
   Laurie

I'm sitting in the waiting lounge at Toyota, and I'm tearing up.  I'm so happy!
Title: Re: Middle name
Post by: Charlie Nicki on January 26, 2018, 02:04:47 PM
Quote from: Jessica on January 26, 2018, 08:52:25 AM
Oh girlfriend, you were the second dear friend that saw Marie in my eyes, and that was only because you were in school when I asked.  You were a very important part in my search.

Jessica Marie

Quote from: Laurie on January 26, 2018, 11:52:42 AM
It's Okay Nicki I'll share. We both told her the same thing independently and we were the first she asked.

Hugs,
   Laurie

Haha deal!  :D ;)