Hi,
A bit different for us, not being a dresser or trans. Jos & i were married for 35 out of 39 years comeing up. we have 3 grown up adluts & 9 grandkids, .
We had are marrige annuld because i am an intersexed person, & by birth certs female at birth though go back 65 years it was not a thought out we are different because we may be different, so some of us were seen or percived as male,
At the moment we are liveing apart. though do most things just the same i pick Jos up we do shoping go see our daughter Kaylyn & her 4 kids, most weeks about two times each week,
We are close, many of our friends are known by us both ,
To get were we are now took 8 years of ...HELL...so make no mistake it was, when i told Jos i was / am a woman the bomb did go off for us both that will be comeing up to 20 years ago.
We both are stronger for what we went through though it was very hard, some things are very similar to trans, yet we have a few details that are different, over all it has worked out in the main for family, 16 of us,
Of cause they will allways wonder why, because of , i was in there eyes a male , yes a percived male at that, yet i never was a real male, not a compleat one any way,
We are over the what the hell is going on, its about life for all of us, & time is a helper in what has changed for us,
Im well known so there is no hideing & what you see is just a woman who's out there in the public eye a member of quite a few soc , groups, & women only plus mixed groups,
I knew what i was at age 10 though could not explain any thing about myself, that was shut down because i knew we would not be accepted as being different, more like cartered off to the nuthouse so we keeped our mouths shut, as we were growing up we just lived a normal life well what was thought in those days, i knew i would be able to live as a normal woman later in life, how when i had no idear just knew i would, well i have & its been pretty good over all , so that gives you some idear for one who is a woman thats different,
...noeleena...
