Id say you pass better as male in your first picture, like others have said.
And if it helps, Im at, I think 40months on T, and what it looks like you grow on your chin, is what I can get on my chin, but other than that, I literally cant grow even one hair anywhere else. It is really frustrating, as its the only thing that T can bring, that it hasnt. I feel my levels are low, they tend to come out around 12-15 nmol/l, and when Ive looked this up (as I dont really understand it all), it seems to suggest that is low, but the woman I see at the gender clinic says that it is "satisfactory" so no changes need to be made.
But, anyway, Im also in the same boat of not being able to grow the amount of facial hair you both want, and feel you should be able to get. :/