I'm really shy about talking about all this in a forum, but here goes nothing...

I have known for most of my life (although I spent a good number of years
trying to pretend it wasn't there) that I am very strongly drawn to lots of
aspects of feminine fashion - jewelry, nail polish and makeup especially.
I think my mental map of myself is more female than male, and so much
of the 'guy stuff' just seems so dull and utiliarian compared to all the
colorful, sparkly girl things.

I guess I don't mind being identified as a guy, but I wish I could just be
open to everyone (or at least friends and family) that I like all these things
without having to worry about being shamed and judged.  I would love
to be able to say, "oh I love stuff like this, I'm totally a tomgirl", in the
same casual way that women can say that they are tomboys or girly girls
and no one thinks anything of it.

- Julia Erin

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Janet 

Welcome, Julia, from sunny southern California.  Be sure to join in the conversation - it never stops!

Hi Julia, welcome to Susan's Place! You'll meet lots of new friends here. I'm up in the Boston area. See you around, hugs, Devlyn

Hi Julia,it's nice to meet you.Hugs.Rachael.

Hi Julia,

A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.

There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.

Thank you for sharing this very personal part of your life with us. Certainly the more you talk about yourself the more you learn about yourself. So why not give it a go.

Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.

Lotsa huggs
Catherine