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The "Could I Pass One Day" Thread - Part 2

Started by Jamie D, September 27, 2012, 02:21:49 AM

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soulfairer

Quote from: monica.soto on January 01, 2013, 08:07:37 PM
I need that butt! I'm already doing those body feminizing workouts, hope they work!

and no hormones for me.....yet ;)

yes genetics dictaminated my butt is very flat, and I only grow fat on my love handles....:(

They kind of do! If you don't exercize the upper body and do so in the lower, it evens out some proportions... And I grow some fat in my love handles too, so I don't have a tiny waist like I now would :(
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=celestica=

Quote from: soulfairer on January 01, 2013, 09:01:28 PM
They kind of do! If you don't exercize the upper body and do so in the lower, it evens out some proportions... And I grow some fat in my love handles too, so I don't have a tiny waist like I now would :(

Tiny waists are over rated.
Women come in all kinds of shapes hon.

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soulfairer

Quote from: =celestica= on January 01, 2013, 09:46:34 PM
Tiny waists are over rated.
Women come in all kinds of shapes hon.

I know! It's just that some fat is there :) (but yeah, nothing I couldn't get rid of, but I just like eating a lot :) )
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monica.soto

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Henna

Thanks Carolina for your comment. You kind of confirmed what I also see in the mirror, but haven't really "believed it". Thank you.
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=celestica=

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beatrice Nainen

Quote from: Shantel on December 31, 2012, 10:43:01 AM
Beatrice, what a beautiful face! Eventually you'll have to submit a photo sans makeup so we can really give a really honest critique, but it looks like you're on the road to stardom so far!

Quote from: soulfairer on December 31, 2012, 12:29:01 PM
Thank you! And as Shantel said, eventually you'll have to post pics sans makeup :) But the fact that you're already projecting so far is that changes probably will happen faster than for me. I just stayed afloat for months, perhaps more than a year, just almost waiting for changes to happen (did change many things such as taking care of myself and imagining how'd be the different life, but didn't act by trying a further projection wearing aggressive makeup to imagine different cheek lines, a smooth skin, a greater contrast between lip & skin, etc).

Dears
First of all I would like to thanks all the comments you are doing here. I realize it's hard to evaluate my real appearance with make-up and I will send some photos in "sans" as soon I return form my travel.  However I have reasons to post photos with make. One is that it's not so easy to know who I am in the WEB (I'm deeply sorry but, as always, I'm in a hurricane of indecisions: take a step forward or try to straighten me like a man?).
But,  I can say  it is not so different as with make... Your words confirms that I can succeed in my transition. 
In truth I need to do something. Since I was a shield I have a strong, strong! problem of gender identity.  Even though I have strongly tried to adopt  a "normal life", has been very difficult to maintain relationships with girls.  My "natural hormonal balance" and their expressions in my body never allowed me to have all the functions of a man if you can understad me (as well it is not normal, I think, to have breasts without ever gotten a HRT).  All this confuses me and my family always suppressed me a lot, what makes me a deeply, deeply unhappy person. I just can not more live this big lie.
So, now I'm in my own life and I'm starting the process. You do not know how your feedback has helped me.
Cheers. Bea.
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soulfairer

Quote from: beatrice Nainen on January 02, 2013, 11:56:29 AM
Dears
First of all I would like to thanks all the comments you are doing here. I realize it's hard to evaluate my real appearance with make-up and I will send some photos in "sans" as soon I return form my travel.  However I have reasons to post photos with make. One is that it's not so easy to know who I am in the WEB (I'm deeply sorry but, as always, I'm in a hurricane of indecisions: take a step forward or try to straighten me like a man?).
But,  I can say  it is not so different as with make... Your words confirms that I can succeed in my transition. 
In truth I need to do something. Since I was a shield I have a strong, strong! problem of gender identity.  Even though I have strongly tried to adopt  a "normal life", has been very difficult to maintain relationships with girls.  My "natural hormonal balance" and their expressions in my body never allowed me to have all the functions of a man if you can understad me (as well it is not normal, I think, to have breasts without ever gotten a HRT).  All this confuses me and my family always suppressed me a lot, what makes me a deeply, deeply unhappy person. I just can not more live this big lie.
So, now I'm in my own life and I'm starting the process. You do not know how your feedback has helped me.
Cheers. Bea.

We are all here for that. :) If you were "blessed" (in our way of thinking, at least) having breasts without ever being in HRT, so enjoy the ride. Who knows what the changes will be when you start HRT and remove the facial hair? :)

Have a good luck in starting your process! And keep track of it here, if you want to!
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beatrice Nainen

Quote from: soulfairer on January 02, 2013, 12:18:26 PM
We are all here for that. :) If you were "blessed" (in our way of thinking, at least) having breasts without ever being in HRT, so enjoy the ride. Who knows what the changes will be when you start HRT and remove the facial hair? :)

Have a good luck in starting your process! And keep track of it here, if you want to!

Hi Carolina. For me the greatest meaning is not to look like... . I'm sure to say my biggest interest is to see my psychological answer to this transformation, in order to have a normal life, with friends, social live, joys, love, be accepted in a group... I'm very unhappy and stressed out all the time, despite being quite a successful professional life.

In time: As my doctor referred I started taking finasteride yesterday, at last to stop the hair loss and, principally, to see the responses to my case. Cheers and thank you again.
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V M

Quote from: NotThereYet on January 03, 2013, 12:08:02 AM
I am sorry but how do you post a picture here?

When I hit the little Monna Lisa nothing really happens....

You need to use a photo hosting site like Photobucket, ImageShack, TinyPic, Imgur or such  :)  Photobucket is fairly easy to use but if you do a web search for 'photo hosting sites' I'm sure you'll find one you like  :)
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

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- V M
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Jamie D

Quote from: NotThereYet on January 03, 2013, 12:08:02 AM
I am sorry but how do you post a picture here?

When I hit the little Monna Lisa nothing really happens....

Open this post with the "Quote" button and look at the format

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hazel

25 year old guy here pre anything and just curious on my prospects of passing one day, looking for honest crit because I'm so used to second guessing myself that I really don't know anymore. Um towel on my head because I just got out the shower (and I hate my hair anyway) :P
Thanks for looking  :)
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Shantel

Quote from: hazel on January 03, 2013, 06:39:18 AM
25 year old guy here pre anything and just curious on my prospects of passing one day, looking for honest crit because I'm so used to second guessing myself that I really don't know anymore. Um towel on my head because I just got out the shower (and I hate my hair anyway) :P
Thanks for looking  :)

Yes, definitely and with great success! You have a darling face, basically quite feminine and delicately proportioned. Your eyebrows will possibly need a tiny bit of tweaking and you'll do well to laser any existing facial hair. You are already a beautiful kid just as you are, and where did you get those pouty lips Miss Pretty face?
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NotThereYet

I agree with what's written above: you are already a girl, indeed

Hormones, laser and a bit of tlc. Done! :-)

Andrea
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MaidofOrleans

Quote from: hazel on January 03, 2013, 06:39:18 AM
25 year old guy here pre anything and just curious on my prospects of passing one day, looking for honest crit because I'm so used to second guessing myself that I really don't know anymore. Um towel on my head because I just got out the shower (and I hate my hair anyway) :P
Thanks for looking  :)

Easy pass
"For transpeople, using the right pronoun is NOT simply a 'political correctness' issue. It's core to the entire struggle transpeople go through. Using the wrong pronoun means 'I don't recognize you as who you are.' It means 'I think you're confused, delusional, or mentally I'll.'. It means 'you're not important enough for me to acknowledge your struggle.'"
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Kgirl

Quote from: hazel on January 03, 2013, 06:39:18 AM
25 year old guy here pre anything and just curious on my prospects of passing one day, looking for honest crit because I'm so used to second guessing myself that I really don't know anymore. Um towel on my head because I just got out the shower (and I hate my hair anyway) :P
Thanks for looking  :)

Pre-everything? Daaang! I wish I looked like you! =)
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hazel

Wow! thanks for the kind words everyone ^^ I haven't exactly spoken to anyone in real life about this yet so yours is the first opinion I've had on my looks gender wise. Although I do feel a little disingenuous now, of the handful of pics I took the other night this was easily the most flattering to my feminine side.
So at the risk of making you take back your compliments  :D and in the interest of fairness I'll post the others up

http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a538/hazel198713/IMG_20130103_023943_zpsbd6ced25.jpg
http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a538/hazel198713/IMG_20130103_142853_zps461cb6fc.jpg
http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a538/hazel198713/IMG_20130103_142712_zps303c8ae6.jpg
http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a538/hazel198713/IMG_20130103_000920_zps80c64a9e.jpg


NotThereYet, I'm using Photobucket to host my pics, maybe try them if you're not already?
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NotThereYet

Does photo bucket work from a phone?

Could anyone look at my post and tell me what I am doing wrong, please?
this is so frustrating...

Thanks,
Andrea
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hazel

Should do there's an app for it, but I haven't tried it I'm linking from the site on my PC. I just copied the direct link and then put it inbetween the [img][/img[ boxes.
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Shantel

Quote from: hazel on January 03, 2013, 01:35:33 PM
Wow! thanks for the kind words everyone ^^ I haven't exactly spoken to anyone in real life about this yet so yours is the first opinion I've had on my looks gender wise. Although I do feel a little disingenuous now, of the handful of pics I took the other night this was easily the most flattering to my feminine side.
So at the risk of making you take back your compliments  :D and in the interest of fairness I'll post the others up

http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a538/hazel198713/IMG_20130103_023943_zpsbd6ced25.jpg
http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a538/hazel198713/IMG_20130103_142853_zps461cb6fc.jpg
http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a538/hazel198713/IMG_20130103_142712_zps303c8ae6.jpg
http://i1282.photobucket.com/albums/a538/hazel198713/IMG_20130103_000920_zps80c64a9e.jpg


NotThereYet, I'm using Photobucket to host my pics, maybe try them if you're not already?

Well yeah, there's a couple of grumpy guy pix but isn't going to change my original assessment. If you keep scrunching up your forehead with the tough guy look you'll wind up wearing those creases and have to get them botoxed out later. Better listen to Aunti Shan!
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